That's pretty manipulative of him :< I'm sorry you had to go through that.
It was worse than that, he started talking self-harm and that he was going to meditate on me to calm down.
Meditate on you?
Geez, that's absolutely shitty. Do you have a way to get in contact with his family or somebody else close to pass the bomb over?
Geez, that's absolutely shitty. Do you have a way to get in contact with his family or somebody else close to pass the bomb over?
We're both pagan, and he was doing pagan-y things through thoughts of me. I couldn't pass the ball, all his friends and family hate me. His girlfriend sees me as a threat.
His family might hate you, but do they hate him as well? Because if he's unwell I don't think they should care where is the news from.
@Another Movie Addict: glad you had a good time, Sorry I was eating food.
That is pretty low of your X, was it his fault that you're not together anymore?
That is pretty low of your X, was it his fault that you're not together anymore?
His sister wouldn't give a shit, she's hated him for as long as I've known them. I toyed with telling his father, but he's one of those dudes who thinks mental illness isn't a thing and he's just not man enough.
@Unicorn: Yes it was. I failed a few job interviews and he decided that I wasn't trying hard enough and sucked so hard at adulting that he was sick of me.
@Unicorn: Yes it was. I failed a few job interviews and he decided that I wasn't trying hard enough and sucked so hard at adulting that he was sick of me.
@Another Movie Addict: sorry to hear that and your X sounds like a something or other.
if I was you I would block his number and get a number change
if I was you I would block his number and get a number change
Lol the only reason I contacted him again, a year after the break up, was because I wanted some of my stuff back. Then we were getting only as friends. Now though he's making it awkward and awful. I've always known about his narcasisstic personality disorder, we've known each other for close to 14 years now. For a time I just looked past it.
Lol I did. I was really glad to not have to try and replace the towel I got at Disney World.
Oh wow that is a really long time and I hope you got all of your stuff back from him.
it is still crappy of your X to be like this and making things awful and awkward.
it is still crappy of your X to be like this and making things awful and awkward.
If you can’t say something nice, Don’t say anything at all!
tough, when it's also a friend, possibly if you asked that he refrain from the drunk texting, that might solve most of it.
I know he's actually lonely. His new girlfriend lives six hours away and is super toxic for him.
But you can't think like that... if it's bad for you. Gotta think of your well being first.
Which he knows I have a problem doing. He knows that I will naturally put someone hurting before me. It's one of the things he's always disliked about me. He knows I will put him first. That's why I'm proud of myself about today. I put myself and my plans first, instead of trying to bend over backwards finding a way to give him what he wants.
I don't do it for kindness reasons. My family raised me my entire life, that focusing on myself for any reason was selfish and self-centered.
I don't do it for kindness reasons. My family raised me my entire life, that focusing on myself for any reason was selfish and self-centered.
Yes they do.
It just kind of bothers me, that he's turning so hard towards me and ignores me at the same time. What kind of sense does that make.
It just kind of bothers me, that he's turning so hard towards me and ignores me at the same time. What kind of sense does that make.
Lol and here lately I've just not been paying him any attention. Today, well yesterday now, I didn't check my phone until I was time to go to the theater. But I've been ignoring my texts for a while now. Been focusing on my own stuff.
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Having you as a Voltie would be awesome.