So first of my dad is already retired. Mom isn't since she is 10 year younger. Anyway he thinks he get's to dictate which shifts my mom should work. My mom works in healthcare. She works with disabled people. He doesn't want her to have night shifts anymore because he doesn't want to be alone in bed. So she is not doing those anymore. Then he complained how she was working a lot during the day. Well hello! If she isn't doing night shifts anymore it will be day shifts instead. She now has a job where she can also work from home. Dad was happy because she would be at home a bit more often. But now he is angry that she is on her work phone so much. He just told her he is totally done with it. Hello! It is WORK from home! What else do you expect? Not to mention he is on his computer almost the whole day. So so what if she is on her work phone calling etc?
Well that is not super helpful of him. I don't know what he expects. Perhaps outside assistance is in order. What's your mom's stance on all this...?
