I've been at home since March 9.
That first week was a break, but the rest were "work from home" weeks.

As the weeks have progressed, my job has been doing "soft" rollouts of new expectations every single week.
We've been told that we are supposed to work 6 hours a day-whichever 6 we want, but to be mindful and flexible in our scheduling to accommodate the many needs that come our way.

I'm finding that now, I'm never done working.

I'm getting calls from coworkers to troubleshoot tech problems until 11pm
I'm working on documents/videos/slidedecks/websites well into the night because I have a 3 year and I can get quality work done after his bedtime.
I'm expected to be available for emails at any time because "we don't know anyone else's circumstances- their work hours may not complement your work hours".
I'm receiving mixed signals- "you're communicating too much." "you're not communicating enough." "This other person does it this way." "I love what you're doing."
I'm attending online meetings.
I'm facilitating online meetings..
and the list just keeps going on.

I have no work life separation now that my whole house is my workplace.

I'm also trying to juggle a 3 year old staying home through all of that, trying to make sure he gets the education he needs, a husband that has his own meetings/work from home demands from his job, and we can never keep the house straightened.

It's too much.
I'm overwhelmed and
I
can't
stop.

I used to keep my work email off of my phone to prevent working too much, but it's not possible to do that now. I might miss an email. I used to just leave work at work by 5:00 each day and would have my evening dedicated to family and relaxing, but now I have to be available for any need that may arise.


Don't get me wrong- I'm super grateful to have a job and still be getting paid- I just wish the demands were more realistic.
I'm having to be understanding and accommodating of everyone else's circumstances and situations while I'm not being given that same grace, flexibility, and patience with my own circumstances and situations.
It just sucks.

/end rant

This is also one of the main reasons why I would prefer to work in an office compared to at home... While it's convenient for the most part - you just have your work at home with you.

I agree with the first 2 replies, it's best to communicate with your boss about this. It's very unfair to you, and your family.
It's likely that your other co-workers think the same.

Honestly that's what I'm finding with work from home too, no work life separation. but I don't also have a 3-yr-old. It must be a lot of work to keep the wee one sane too.

I think you have the right to be accomodated by other people too, I'm pretty sure everyone is expected to be flexible so advocate for yourself and your kid. Do it for him! You're not in it alone.

This also just shows me that the workplace just doesn't value the work of mothers, and then she's the one everyone blames when they mess up in life. Smh.

@totalanimefan: Sooooo I may have gotten sick last week (just allergies, but terrible ones) and I only worked the very bare minimum. And guess what? no one said a word. not a single thing. it was really liberating. I feel like I can work like a normal human.

@Bonnie: I'm not compensated for more hours because I'm salaried. It all just kind of comes with the contract under all other duties not listed above or some nonsense like that

@kwisshiie: They do.. I think we're all equally stressed. I am excited to be done with this part. haha

@Lucifera: I set up a work office in the guest bedroom, but I made the mistake of letting it become my son's "classroom" too and it's a WRECK now. I need to clean it and kick him out. Haha. I've been in the living room since he destroyed it. Not as productive, but TV....

@Eruca: So, I spent a lot of time keeping him quiet and making sure he didn't interrupt my calls, but I chose not to for one of my meetings last week. At the end of the meeting, I just shrugged my shoulders and told my boss "Sorry, this is my current reality. It is what it is." and she was really understanding. My son drove his firetruck complete with sirens through another and I was just like "Kids... amirite?" IDK if they judged or cared, but It is what it is! I'm working really hard on not being apologetic for my situation. People have got to understand and if they don't, then they're a terrible person. XD

@kegs: I was definitely feeling the burnout and then I got sick and stopped working so much for about a week and a half. and the world didn't end. I didn't get in trouble. Not one got mad at me that I know of.....

@Mousy: So glad to hear you're figuring it out! Things can change but life goes on.