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Donator — she/they Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/1 14:21:01 )
My birthday is on the 24th, and I'm dreading it. I'm pretty sure it is a cursed day. I usually have a range of lame to traumatic events on or around my birthday. I don't mind that I'm about to be 36 but I do mind not having a fun or joyous or even blandly normal day.

Just some of the things I've been through: When I was a teen, my horrible grandma took me to the ren fair only to ditch me and hang out with one of her married boyfriends. It proceeded to rain on me for hours. In my 20's, a former friend my husband and I financially supported for years invited me to go shopping at the mall, but instead of spending time or money on me, he bought a ton of gifts for our mutual co-worker he invited... when I told him I was hurt by this, he did not even apologize, he just said that was my fault for expecting anything. Last year my husband and I planned on going out to dinner, but my job decided they could not pay me on time so our plans fell through... the next day I found out I had a miscarriage. A lot of other things have happened that were less traumatizing, but thats about par for my special day.

My husband still thinks we should plan something fun to chase away the bad luck, but I kind of want to pretend its just another day. I've got my new baby, so I'd rather spend time with her and ignore the world.
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Donator — She Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/1 17:03:56 )
@glume:my birthday is on the 11th of this month and im not looking forward to it at all either with the pandemic going on and what not.. sorry you've had a horrible time nearing ur birthdays and im so sorry you had a miscarriage..
Plan something nice for ur birthday with ur husband and the baby.. try stay positive.. and beat that curse ^.^
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Donator — she/they Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/1 21:07:29 )
@Nephila: Thank you! I want to just ignore my birthday, but my husband is notorious for having amazing birthdays so I get jealous. He celebrates all week and the day of goes full party mode. I want that kind of energy in my day too lol


@LilMissKushy: and of course @Totalanimefan: Birthday buddies! Cancers and Leos unite! My mother has a birthday this month, too. Four days before mine lol Maybe I should just celebrate hers extra hard instead.
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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/1 21:22:09 )
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i'm sorry to hear about your birthday, it can't be fun to have to associate this day with bad memories <3
i hope you can maybe do something nice and simple? like eating one of your favorite foods, or watching a movie you really like :-)
and congrats on your baby!

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Voltie — Moody Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/2 00:36:31 )
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I'm sorry your birthday has not been good.
I can relate as my birthdays normally suck and have had maybe...1 good birthday.
I hope this year will be different for you and you have a good day.
Even if it's not doing much.
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Donator — PomePome Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/2 12:27:28 )
@Glume: wait what? Youre almost 36????i never though that!
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Donator — she/they Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/2 13:42:39 )
@Miss Sandman: I'm an old lady XD
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Donator — PomePome Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/2 14:07:05 )
@Glume: 36 isnt thst old though xD
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Donator — she/they Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/2 18:00:02 )
@Miss Sandman: old is a state of mind... I'm the voltra granny!


@koneko: Thats actually genius I love it.
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Donator — PomePome Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/2 20:18:50 )
@Glume: than iam 50+ xD okay my body feels like 50+ because Baby chan gains and gains weight xD
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Donator — she/they Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/2 21:19:56 )
@koneko: I could just use my husbands birthday since they are usually awesome lol


@Miss Sandman: My baby has been growing like crazy and its only week five
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Voltie Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/2 22:10:44 )

i hope ur birthday ends up being good !!! ;w;
- [ miss sunny ]
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Donator — PomePome Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/3 07:14:02 )
@Glume: well yes xD ist so wierd i know! Baby chan now eats solid food and has her first tooth with 5 months! They grow so fast ;A;
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Donator — Fluffywuff Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/4 03:02:30 )

@Glume: Nya nyaaaaa older than youuuuuuuu XDD;;

But yeah, as far as canonically bad days, I feel you.
People look at me and think rainbows and sh**, but the days rainbows are out, are really bad days for me.
I love the rainbows, mind you, but yeah.
There's been everything from Bad Phone Calls(tm), to nasty car wrecks.
That sh** is cursed, yo. :/

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Donator — she/they Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/07/4 09:10:09 )
@Kozi: I call BS!
I can't celebrate any holiday after Halloween because so many family deaths :/
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