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Donator Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 06:23:23 )
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Hi there *waves*

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Oh, I may have forgotten about it and feel quite unmotivated lol
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Donator — She Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 08:21:01 )
Hello everyone :)
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Donator Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 10:21:57 )
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Hi there, Miss Kushy c: How are you doing today? And nice avi btw ^^
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Voltie Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 14:10:44 )
Good morning.

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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 16:33:02 )
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hey everyone how are your days going ^^

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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 16:33:25 )
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just dropping by to say gm before work :3

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Voltie — He/Him Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 16:34:44 )
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My day is starting off terribly ;~;
I hope your day's better than mine ;w;


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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 16:35:53 )
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oh no i’m sorry to hear that :-(

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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 16:36:37 )
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what happened? (if you want to talk about it)
- if not, i hope your day gets better soon!!

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Voltie — He/Him Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 16:43:55 )
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I'll stick it under a spoiler - tl:dr; ex-friend sent me a friend request on Discord and I feel bad because of what that friend group did to me

An ex-friend from an ex-friend group added me on Discord, I removed the request because I assumed the worst - so I go poking around their social media, and they apparently miss their old friends (I'm assuming that means me?) and I'm feeling very conflicted because I did kind of just...drop off the face of the earth to them, but also... that group stressed me so bad that it triggered a split (can explain that if need be, it's related to dissociative identity disorder). I know my personal comfort's important, but I feel like I messed up by removing that friend request somehow ???


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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 16:50:52 )
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aw i see :-( idk what happened but you can always send them a friend request if you feel ready again in the future, and it seems like there’s no pressure to be friends again right now if you don’t feel ready to
if you change your mind it seems like this person is open to being friends with you, if or when you feel like reconnecting - and only if you want to

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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 16:52:16 )
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and if you ever feel like it i feel like people would understand if you explained or gave context?
tho i’m not familiar w the group or what happened so i can only speak generally ...
i would think that if this person was wanting to be friends again that they would be receptive to you tho

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Voltie — He/Him Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 16:59:19 )
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I guess I'm just conflicted because I feel guilty - I feel like I should reconnect with this person, but at the same time I don't want to. The only reason I feel like I should is because they were the one to send the friend request, meaning they wanted to reconnect, but after all that ex-friend group did, I don't know if I could handle it... I mean, I couldn't last time and someone had to step in my place for me.


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Voltie — He/Him Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 17:38:06 )
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Okay so I have come to the conclusion! That making myself talk to this person just because I feel like I should isn't great :'3
I'm feeling a little better about this now, even if I have lingering guilt >w>;;


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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 17:50:12 )
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you don’t have to feel guilty!
relationships require two way consent lol you don’t have to be friends w someone if you don’t want to
if being friends w them is not a good time for you, there’s no obligation to suffer for their sake

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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 17:51:27 )
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i know what you mean though i think... but you know best what’s right or good for you and i’m glad you’re feeling better about it :0

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Voltie — He/Him Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 18:01:59 )
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Yeah, it was stressing me out in a bad way - after talking to my best friend about it I realized that I didn't have the time/energy/mental capacity to talk to them again ;v; I do hope they're doing alright, but I think talking to them again would just dredge up the awful things that happened to me then ;;v;;

Thank you for hearing me out by the way!! I really appreciate it ;w;


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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 19:15:18 )
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ya it’s ok to be like , this relationship, not right now :3
and whether or not you want to restore it (if), if you’re not ready you’re not ready (when) and there’s no pressure to push or force it if it’s not something you want, either in general or even just for the time being

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Donator — they/them Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 19:15:43 )
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and ofc!! how ru feeling now?

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Voltie Posted 4 years ago ( 2020/08/11 19:51:02 )
He says he is FEeling ok!!! He's "AFK:" so I can use the Compuyter :-)
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