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I keep having dreams abt talking to mine and it makes me miss them, even tho I had v good reasons for skedaddling
But maybe I just miss having friends 🤷🏼♂️
But maybe I just miss having friends 🤷🏼♂️
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Forums Serious Talk Do u ever miss ur old (toxic) friends?
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I spent a lot of time in voicecalls playing videogames and doing collaborative writing n now i just kinda... exist
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I have dreams like that too sometimes... It's ok to have good memories from bad relationships I think. As long as you don't let it influence you to make bad decisions.
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@Totalanimefan: there's always good times with shitty ppl :'( thats how they get us to stay
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@Nephila: oh yeah I have no plans in talking to any of these ppl, they're all toxic racist edgelords lol. i kinda try to keep in touch with people who are like me and wanna support others / do mutual aid, but abusers end up in every group eventually :/
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@Priestess of Pie: yeah I'm trying to learn how to accept the good memories n the fun I did have, and kno that leaving helped me grow as a person instead of being stagnant like them
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I have reoccuring dreams about my toxic friends too... >.< I don’t really miss them though.
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Absolutly, however i miss the good parts.
Said friend also later on turned into an Ex however i accepted to dating them bc i was scared of losing them.
Its been more then 4 years now and it still hurts so much and i hate it.
I miss them so much but id rather die then be friends again, back then i didnt realize how shitty they really where.
Every now and then i dream about them.
Its also hard to forget them since every con i go to they are there. Having mutual friends ect...
Said friend also later on turned into an Ex however i accepted to dating them bc i was scared of losing them.
Its been more then 4 years now and it still hurts so much and i hate it.
I miss them so much but id rather die then be friends again, back then i didnt realize how shitty they really where.
Every now and then i dream about them.
Its also hard to forget them since every con i go to they are there. Having mutual friends ect...
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Hmmm..... Sometimes I wish I could hang out with my old friends (only a very few of them though they are pretty toxic...) despite that they somehow do occur in my dreams. Then again, I don't really miss them that much since we've already moved on by the time we graduated from high school. It might hurt when you feel like you lose your friends at first but you don't have to hold onto them forever. Finding and making new friends would be a little bit better but that depends on the person.
yeah, but I don't know how they turned out to be as people. they could just be shitty, and I don't want to be friends with shitty people.
really, I'd rather just have *any* friends.
really, I'd rather just have *any* friends.
I never really had toxic friends, just kinda selfish ones who sucked at maintaining their end of the relationship, thus communication died out when I had enough of always having to be the one to initiate contact. If they can't be assed to talk to me on their own, they didn't care that much to begin with. I can think back fondly on the good times we had without particularly missing them as people.
Similarly, I sometimes miss the good moments in my relationships with my family, who very much is toxic and who I don't plan on keeping in touch with once I finally move out. Jokes they made, little traditions around holidays, etc... I can keep those things without keeping those people, but it will always sting just a little bit.
It sucks having no family and very few friends. I can see why you'd sort of miss even the bad ones, especially if you do have at least some fond memories with them. That only seems natural. But hopefully you can make some new memories with better people in the future.
Similarly, I sometimes miss the good moments in my relationships with my family, who very much is toxic and who I don't plan on keeping in touch with once I finally move out. Jokes they made, little traditions around holidays, etc... I can keep those things without keeping those people, but it will always sting just a little bit.
It sucks having no family and very few friends. I can see why you'd sort of miss even the bad ones, especially if you do have at least some fond memories with them. That only seems natural. But hopefully you can make some new memories with better people in the future.
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Hello!
I wouldn't say I had any kind of toxic friends, but I know what you are feeling.
We've been sharing memories and good experience about having time together, and even if I miss them, I do not hesitate to write some warm nice messages to them.
I had a friend with tough character with who I haven't been talking for a long time but I felt so nostalgic about her so I messaged her.
And you know, she replied quite positively.
This gave me a relief and I just went further... 8D
I mean, we almost doesn't speak with each other, but still - little warm contact feels nice.
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How to break a heart
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@vessel: i know how you feel. Just try and push threw how ever you can.
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You cant always see it or hear it, but you can feel it.
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Felt someone walk over your grave?
Ever felt someone behind you in an empty room?
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A ghost.
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Human emotion is energy.
You cant always see it or hear it, but you can feel it.
Ever had deja vu?
Felt someone walk over your grave?
Ever felt someone behind you in an empty room?
Well there was. There always is.
A ghost.
~Torchwood
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I have felt this many times.
Which always makes me very confused when i wake up from having dreams of them.
I think i mostly missed the times before things got to a toxic point and having a lot of friends too which we could
talk about anything and everything.
i mostly only have..1-2 friends now. but i often do not socialize very much.
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I have felt this many times.
Which always makes me very confused when i wake up from having dreams of them.
I think i mostly missed the times before things got to a toxic point and having a lot of friends too which we could
talk about anything and everything.
i mostly only have..1-2 friends now. but i often do not socialize very much.
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In a few words: not really.
I had a friend; when we were in high school together, he was okay, but as the years went on, he became pretty much racist AF, to the point where I didn't want to be around him. At this point, I haven't seen the guy in at least five years, and I don't want to, TBH.
I had a friend; when we were in high school together, he was okay, but as the years went on, he became pretty much racist AF, to the point where I didn't want to be around him. At this point, I haven't seen the guy in at least five years, and I don't want to, TBH.
I had to let go some friends not so long ago so I definitely experience this a lot but not so often anymore.
But when I do I think it's because I feel extremely lonely.
There's something foul about the air here...
A big fat nope, I was gullible and malleable at the time and they were really really really bad people, they made me do and say some... rather not okay things that would get me thrown off the internet today and I'm haunted constantly that that stuff will come back and completely kill me and everything I've been working towards. I've changed almost completely from who I was then and I'm thankful for my newer friends that have helped me not be a horrible person.
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Honestly no. I used to have (so-called) friends during my secondary school (high school) years but I stopped keeping in touch with them after graduation when I realised they were toxic (even used some casual racist jokes/comments at some point which made me feel uncomfortable and wanted to get the f away from them) af.
Honestly no. I used to have (so-called) friends during my secondary school (high school) years but I stopped keeping in touch with them after graduation when I realised they were toxic (even used some casual racist jokes/comments at some point which made me feel uncomfortable and wanted to get the f away from them) af.
Sometimes, but most of the time no. I had to block my ex-BFF recently, who I have known forever. I was in denial that she is/has become toxic
I'll be slow to respond for this week
I'll be slow to respond for this week
Man or woman... It doesn't matter! One of Strength.. And nobility...
I miss the companionship and deeper level of relationship I had shared... but do I miss the person that I shared that with? no. Honestly I cut them out a few years back and I miss having someone to call up or who knows the inner workings of my life and family so I can just talk without explaining anything.
But I don't miss how codependent and suffocating the toxic part of that relationship was. I also don't miss being hurt all the time or feeling uncomfortable because my boundaries were never respected... or being call mean and angry all the time BECAUSE my boundaries were disrespected and I got agitated by it >:T
I don't miss feeling guilty for trying to make friends outside of her. Or like bending over backwards making comprises that I felt were one-sided in the name of keeping the waters calm. bleck never again!
Like man we weren't even in a romantic relationship and it felt like I was in an unhappy depressive marriage!!
It was exhausting.... and honestly I'd rather be alone than have the mental load it took to be their friend :Y
Though all this to say when our "friendship" crumbled I did the least healthiest thing ever and pushed away a lot of people thinking I was very undeserving of any type of companionship ;3;
I miss all those guys! I just... wasn't a very good friend to them >n<;;;
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Having you as a Voltie would be awesome.