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Voltie — They/He Posted 3 years ago ( 2021/07/11 20:31:30 )
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help girl (/q), I'm going on my first ever (unsupervised) date and I am absolutely terrified lmao

no, it isn't because of who im going with, i just have anxiety.

Hoooooooo boy, this is gonna be something. Might update this afterwards but I'm just posting bc my brain needs to do SOMETHING in the meantime while I wait for my date


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Donator — she/her Posted 3 years ago ( 2021/07/12 00:25:34 )


Deep breaths and try to relax. :O

Assuming the date is over, how did it go? :)

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Voltie — They/He Posted 3 years ago ( 2021/07/12 12:49:11 )
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@Ark:
@Totalanimefan:
@KDA Drew:
IT WENT WELL AAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!
He was super sweet and reassuring about my social anxiety and was very good at helping me hold a conversation!
I also might have a small hickey on my neck lmao


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Voltie — They/He Posted 3 years ago ( 2021/07/12 18:57:43 )
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@Totalanimefan: I sure hope so! not sure when exactly but I'll definitely try to plan another one ^^


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Voltie Posted 3 years ago ( 2021/07/13 00:08:07 )

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Voltie — They/He Posted 3 years ago ( 2021/07/13 23:30:18 )
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@KDA Drew: oh yeesh, that sounds distressing. as a bipolar myself with a bipolar mother, I can definitely see how it can be an issue (⊙_⊙;)
I made sure my date was well aware of my anxiety and such before the date, bc that's my main struggle, and he handled it EXCEPTIONALLY well (I'm talking better than my parents ever have). He definitely has less issues than I do, but he shared his too. We had one of those weird bonding moments ppl with trauma have when going back and forth talking about their trauma. He's a lot better at verbal communication than I am but he's also very patient and understanding when I'm struggling to come up with coherent sentences.


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Donator — she/her Posted 3 years ago ( 2021/07/14 01:24:20 )


@MaxIsConfused: Oooooohhhhhh <u<

I'm happy to hear you had a good time! ^^ Here's to hoping you two will have more enjoyable dates~

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Donator — She/Her Posted 3 years ago ( 2021/07/20 15:56:07 )
Oh yay, I’m glad your date went well. :3 I also have social anxiety and I’ve never dated anyone before. I’ve only ever had three crushes in my life and for the first time I admitted to my friend that I liked them. This friend liked me a long time ago and then I stopped talking to them for a long time and when I reached out to them recently, I realised I now liked them but they’ve moved on so I’m sad. ;_;
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