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Donator — She/Buns Posted 7 years ago ( 2018/02/23 14:32:58 )





i just wanna vent a little.
so i have a boyfriend and a girlfriend. (polyamory yay)
and the gf lives an hour away and bf and i live together. It makes it hard to see her cause i work a lot, and have an etsy shop i need to make time for.
bf works an hour away int he opposite direction of gf.
so we are all scattered and while we manage to see each other at least twice a week, its still rough.
my job has scheduled me for every weekend the last 6 weekends, friday-sunday. and both bf and gf get weekends off.
so im sooo frustrated.
and my etsy shop is steady and slowly picking up and i feel like i have time for NOTHING. i dont get time to myself much and if i do i am just...sad. i am so worn out i will just sleep all day or cry or something.
i dont want to bring it up much with gf, because she will feel super guilty (she's had really really shitty relatinships int he past and i dont wanna make her feel bad..im her first healthy relationship)
but bf knows a bit and he tries to help me as best he can.
why can't i just get a could extra days to just mellow out?
its why i haven't been on lately. i dont have time for ANYTHING.
i wanna cry, guys.
comfort me pls.
or talk about your own experiences.
sorry for the wall of text ; A;


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Voltie — Princess Posted 7 years ago ( 2018/02/23 14:41:23 )
@pixiebuns: *hugs* it's all gonna be okay, don't cry. Your bf and gf love you and your etsy is doing well so that's great. We understand if you don't have time to come online. It's not like Voltra is going anywhere. Go eat a nice meal and treat yourself :vanora_smile:
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Donator — She/Buns Posted 7 years ago ( 2018/02/23 14:50:49 )





@Saeyra: thank you dear
its just a lot and i dont feel like i've found my balance with it all yet.
i work over 30 hours a wekk, and my etsy and go skating at least twice a week and dancing once a week and i teach lessons at the dancing.
i have so much going on and im just stressed.
i want to be on voltra, cause everyone is so great but i just dont have time ; u;
<3<3


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Donator — She/Her Posted 7 years ago ( 2018/02/24 07:55:02 )
@pixiebuns: go treat yourself they both love you, we also love you. I was wonderimg were you have been at. But life gets busy sometimes, if you can try requesting for some weekends off.
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Voltie — Princess Posted 7 years ago ( 2018/02/24 08:12:36 )
@pixiebuns: Well, don't forget your "me time"! It's important to keep your sanity Health is a form of wealth too so don't spend it too much :vanora_smile:
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Donator — She/Buns Posted 7 years ago ( 2018/02/26 01:32:10 )





@Unicorn: thanks dear <3 <3
yeah ive been trying to find time to hang out on here. just havent.
i got my skates all pretty and havent been able to show you! lol

@saeyra: im tryin not to. i definitely need it Dx <3


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Donator — She/Her Posted 7 years ago ( 2018/02/26 02:11:12 )
@pixiebuns: when you can find time to be on here then you can show me and your welcome I can wait
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