@nyreen: that stinks! hope you get better soon! I'm ok. My mom's been housesitting for a week so I've been alone. .-.
@nyreen: should be tomorrow. I need some help around here. The cats are such a pain to take care of by myself.
@nyreen: t'was mostly my fault. but she's at fault too.
we were both under alot of stress and i made mistakes.
i was supposed to be visiting her in 3 weeks.
but i hadn't booked plane tickets yet.
last year i spent money i shouldn't have, figuring i should still be able to save.
i got enough for tickets, but then after i'd have barely anything left. :/
had too much anxiety and stress to book the tickets.
she was stressing out and putting pressure on me and guilt tripping me about it.
i was worried about spending the money, especially since other stuff came up.
my tooth got worse. and my cat needs to see a vet.
the tooth is my fault for not going sooner,
(girlfriend said she had no pity for stupidity in regards to my tooth)
but it's not like i can predict my cat would get a abscess wound on her paw >.<
we were both under alot of stress and i made mistakes.
i was supposed to be visiting her in 3 weeks.
but i hadn't booked plane tickets yet.
last year i spent money i shouldn't have, figuring i should still be able to save.
i got enough for tickets, but then after i'd have barely anything left. :/
had too much anxiety and stress to book the tickets.
she was stressing out and putting pressure on me and guilt tripping me about it.
i was worried about spending the money, especially since other stuff came up.
my tooth got worse. and my cat needs to see a vet.
the tooth is my fault for not going sooner,
(girlfriend said she had no pity for stupidity in regards to my tooth)
but it's not like i can predict my cat would get a abscess wound on her paw >.<
@Zuzu: honestly idk. You needed medical attention and so did your kitty. You can't neglect either of those things. It's suck and yeah you should have been more careful w/ money, like you said ( just going off of what you said ), but you can't neglect medical stuff. ):
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@nyreen: yeah i should've been more careful with my money. ^-^;
oi wish we could've worked things out, maybe postpone the trip.
i have more time off work later in the year.
a longer visit would be better, my friends were telling me $1600 on tickets for a weeks visit, is alot.
that is pretty much me everytime I over spend, I did it again as well I have $20 to last me til tuesday night 
i'm trying to cut back on my spending.i wanted to order food. but i managed to find something to make instead.
hope ye can make that $20 last.
I should if I'm not stupid with it xD you never know with me, I'm bad with currency in any form
buying cheap things tends to add up to not cheap. that's my downfall. 
@Zuzu: if you ever do want to spend a lot of money on a plane ticket, I have an extra room where you can stay
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Having you as a Voltie would be awesome.