@star2000shadow: I miss mene. I lost my password stuff and I signed up with an email I no longer have acess too. Which really sucks as I had a lot of stuff that I collected over the years.

Trisphee has a good layering system as well.

Yeah, I miss the people at Mene a lot... but I run into some ppl on other sites(like you). I could start over there... but I dunno... life is starting to get hectic again and less and less computer time is going to start happening soon. :( My sig other and I have been basically ignoring everything around our house to a point and spending a lot of time at his parents house taking care of them, making sure they eat, cleaning their house, taking out the garbage, spending as much time with them as we can, etc.
I'm starting to run myself ragged with trying to keep up with our house as well though. It's not dirty cuz I have a set schedule I do chores on certain days, but some stuff has been set aside, like folding clothes. But the main stuff that bugs the crap out of me if it's not clean gets done even if I have to stay up later to do it.(Bathroom and Kitchen are always clean... I am almost OCDish with those rooms, they have to be clean, and clean to my specs where the toilet bowl is shiney and smells like bleach and the kitchen has no dirty dishes, stove is spotless, etc.) I am just glad that our roommate(which is a good friend who needed a place to stay) is so good at helping out. When he isn't working he keeps an eye on and takes out the dogs when were not home, he helps keep the front rooms clean, he cooks dinners and helps out however he can which is really nice. Yikes, I just realized I am babbling on and on... I better stop typing now, lol.