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Donator — PomePome Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:03:33 )
.... really iam crying right now.
as some of you know my BF and i life in a long distance relationship and iam preggo from him atm....
next week we have a big family event. it is planned since months and i was so looking forward to show everyone hey thats my bf and my bump we will getting parents. (so he hates events usually)
so today morning he just came up with yeah i need to work i dont can come next weekend. (i know he can switch such saturday workshifts because they dont can force him to work saturday)
also he ignored me the past last days today morning he came with an excuse.
well i have the feeling he is avoiding me. i just told him get this done or he dont need to bother interract with me for two more weeks!

thank you for reading and if this is the wrong thread pls move!
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Donator — Divine Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:10:43 )
@Miss Sandman:


::gives you and barbaric cutie baby and big hug::
so sorry to hear you are feeling like this. I totally understand that feeling. And being preggers makes you need extra extra attention!. You should tell him you need attention because you are feeling like this. For sure he is just stressed from work. You both need love time.


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Donator — PomePome Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:12:56 )
@inatlaka: i told him. but well.... i dont think he will take it serious
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Donator — Divine Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:15:06 )
@Miss Sandman:


did you say "THIS IS SERIOUS BUSINESS!" ?


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Donator — PomePome Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:24:39 )
@inatlaka: yes i told him everything but well he just dont understand this and tells me i make him feel bad..... i mean wtf thats so egocentric!
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Donator — Divine Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:26:39 )
@Miss Sandman:


aw man that sucks. Do you say it is not your intention to make him feel bad? You only need quality time? I hope he snaps out of it soon. You and baby need attention snuggles, belly rubs and hugs.


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Donator — PomePome Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:29:02 )
@inatlaka: i just feel like if he dosent want me anymore as his gf he should just break up and i take the child with me! he can do what he wants i just have the feeling he stay by my side because he feel guilty or something
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Donator — Divine Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:33:27 )
@Miss Sandman:


aww nooooo!!! I dont think so! He just works alot and maybe he wants to make lots of money to be ready for when baby comes. Work is stressful. Dont lose hope D:


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Donator — PomePome Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:36:35 )
@inatlaka: i hope thats right dear... the other problem is that he need to move in my hometown. and he is a totally boy of hia town. i dont know what he was thinking in the beginning when we start dating and the possibly was that he was moving here. but it seems that he gets cold feet tbh and iam just so dissapointed in him
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Donator — Divine Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:41:34 )
@Miss Sandman:


How far does he live now?
I currently only see my husband on the weekends and he works weekdays. For now. While he moves jobs closer. D:


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Donator — PomePome Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:49:06 )
@inatlaka: he lives just under 2 hours away!
yes its the same for us now!
its just so bad i hope he will work closer soon =)
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Donator — Divine Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 08:54:47 )
@Miss Sandman:


Ah yes my husband is 2 hrs away from me as well T_T
it is very difficult at times the long distance for me as well. But I love him so much and this is only temporary
Yes hopefully he gets a job closer soon! ::sends in good vibes:: <3 <3


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Donator — PomePome Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 09:09:58 )
@inatlaka: yeah i totally can understand this! V_V *good vibes*
we make up again iam still sad but it feels better ^^
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Donator — Divine Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 09:21:04 )
@Miss Sandman:


im happy u feels better. im here any time u need a friend to vent :)



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Donator Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 09:23:05 )

You also need this:

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Donator — PomePome Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 09:26:42 )
@inatlaka: =) thank you!

@vengeance: aww yes!!! i wish i could pet my kitties as well!! but they enjoy the sun outside =O
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Donator Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 09:29:19 )

@Miss Sandman: Here it is grey outside. We have one kitty with the zoomies playing inside.
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Donator — Divine Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 09:31:17 )
@Miss Sandman:
@vengeance:


good nite sweeties <3 <3


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Donator Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 09:32:06 )

@inatlaka: Sleep well.
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Donator — PomePome Posted 5 years ago ( 2019/10/13 09:34:20 )
@vengeance: here its 25°C we have the high lisbeth over germany atm =O maybe it will come to you as well!
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