Yep lol. I guess I just find it odd too because the mom isn't around it, like ever. So makes me wonder if the neighbor cat isn't the mom or if it lost its mom somehow. D:
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also aisu ur current avi is Sick!!!!!!!! holy cow i love it :-D
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omg the kitty pix sob
also aisu ur current avi is Sick!!!!!!!! holy cow i love it :-D
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asdjfka;sdlkfj alksdfk l;a i love my friends lolol
i just got home from seeing two of them <333 i love them both individually and have been trying to get them to meet for a while now cuz i thought they would get along p well!!! it went super well and we had such a lovely nite , i feel so grateful and special to have such wonderful ppl in my life <33333
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asdjfka;sdlkfj alksdfk l;a i love my friends lolol
i just got home from seeing two of them <333 i love them both individually and have been trying to get them to meet for a while now cuz i thought they would get along p well!!! it went super well and we had such a lovely nite , i feel so grateful and special to have such wonderful ppl in my life <33333
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yesss in the past i've described my friends kind of like... a spoke? like i'm close to them but none of them really know each other, like my relationships are v 1:1 as opposed to like, a group of friends
i've talked to multiple friends abt wanting to get ppl to meet and last year i was like 2020 would be the year i start hosting stuff and bringing ppl together Lol
ofc that didn't work out but i'm glad there's this brief window of like, Ok/Nice to hang out occasionally and i'm just feeling v :"-))) abt these two finally meeting!!! cuz i've talked abt them to each other before and i've seen them like each others' stuff on social media etc and they did get along v well ~ ^^<3
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yesss in the past i've described my friends kind of like... a spoke? like i'm close to them but none of them really know each other, like my relationships are v 1:1 as opposed to like, a group of friends
i've talked to multiple friends abt wanting to get ppl to meet and last year i was like 2020 would be the year i start hosting stuff and bringing ppl together Lol
ofc that didn't work out but i'm glad there's this brief window of like, Ok/Nice to hang out occasionally and i'm just feeling v :"-))) abt these two finally meeting!!! cuz i've talked abt them to each other before and i've seen them like each others' stuff on social media etc and they did get along v well ~ ^^<3
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how was everyone's saturday ~ ^^
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how was everyone's saturday ~ ^^
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aaa yeah we were chatting abt that today, one of them has tried to get friends together and their friends did not get along At All lol, like it wasn't like oh they didn't click but like... they disliked each other
i tend to be on the intentional side w my relationships so if i do want ppl to meet it's like, bc i think they would get along well :0
aa it is harder to make new friends as u get older ... i've been feeling super grateful a lot this year to have such special ppl in my life lol<3 like i feel v lucky ... !
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aaa yeah we were chatting abt that today, one of them has tried to get friends together and their friends did not get along At All lol, like it wasn't like oh they didn't click but like... they disliked each other
i tend to be on the intentional side w my relationships so if i do want ppl to meet it's like, bc i think they would get along well :0
aa it is harder to make new friends as u get older ... i've been feeling super grateful a lot this year to have such special ppl in my life lol<3 like i feel v lucky ... !
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aww that's sweet :-)
how did cat shift go? was it less stressful?
:0 rita's .... like the water ice ? :3
i feel like water ice is one of the few things where lemon flavor is like really good lol
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aww that's sweet :-)
how did cat shift go? was it less stressful?
:0 rita's .... like the water ice ? :3
i feel like water ice is one of the few things where lemon flavor is like really good lol
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mm yeah , group dynamics are diff than one on one :0
like diff ppl will bring out diff sides of ya , for me i feel like group dynamics that can get muddied ~
i was thinking abt like ... relationships as waveforms Lol and how waves can combine to get bigger/taller but waves can also combine to cancel each other out - or even get lower
aa meeting new ppl can be scary / takes a lot of like ... energy/hyping urself up ... esp w a group .. !
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mm yeah , group dynamics are diff than one on one :0
like diff ppl will bring out diff sides of ya , for me i feel like group dynamics that can get muddied ~
i was thinking abt like ... relationships as waveforms Lol and how waves can combine to get bigger/taller but waves can also combine to cancel each other out - or even get lower
aa meeting new ppl can be scary / takes a lot of like ... energy/hyping urself up ... esp w a group .. !
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aww sweet ^^<3 i wanna pet a cat lol
i saw some beach dogs yesterday and i was like wah i wanna pet the dog .......
when i was leaving the house today my first floor neighbor was outside w his dog and i got to pet her!!!!!! :-)))) i think she's a pit bull terrier puppy ... ? so cute!! <3
hmmmm i know ritas cuz i used to live in philly :0
it could be like a pennsylvania + nearby areas thing ... ?
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aww sweet ^^<3 i wanna pet a cat lol
i saw some beach dogs yesterday and i was like wah i wanna pet the dog .......
when i was leaving the house today my first floor neighbor was outside w his dog and i got to pet her!!!!!! :-)))) i think she's a pit bull terrier puppy ... ? so cute!! <3
hmmmm i know ritas cuz i used to live in philly :0
it could be like a pennsylvania + nearby areas thing ... ?
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mm i think i try to match friends where they're at - like if they're high energy i can go there, if they're laid back/low energy i can match that, some friends operate on thoughts/ideas while others focus more on feelings/relationships etc - so w groups it's like what does it mean to match a group dynamic ... ? (if that makes sense)
haha any day i can pet a dog is a good day lol
lool<3 i think at some point in my life i'd like a doggy :0 but maybe a later point where i'm ready to dedicate more energy into my home life + caring for others ... i think rn i'm more focused on like, learning/exploring/doing etc.
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mm i think i try to match friends where they're at - like if they're high energy i can go there, if they're laid back/low energy i can match that, some friends operate on thoughts/ideas while others focus more on feelings/relationships etc - so w groups it's like what does it mean to match a group dynamic ... ? (if that makes sense)
haha any day i can pet a dog is a good day lol
lool<3 i think at some point in my life i'd like a doggy :0 but maybe a later point where i'm ready to dedicate more energy into my home life + caring for others ... i think rn i'm more focused on like, learning/exploring/doing etc.
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wait what do u mean :3
i think rita's and wawa are both like regional chains ? (that i associate w philly Lol tho i guess nj + the rest of pa have both too!)
also what flavor did u get :-D
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wait what do u mean :3
i think rita's and wawa are both like regional chains ? (that i associate w philly Lol tho i guess nj + the rest of pa have both too!)
also what flavor did u get :-D
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ooh i think i just find group dynamics interesting to think about lol , and just like ... different relationship styles, diff ppl interact w world/ppl differently, etc
like some friends we get along rly well when we talk about ideas, but they're awful at like emotional support Lol
or some friends are great abt talking abt , how do you feel abt xyz, but might not be able to "match" u when ur like here's all the ideas i've been thinking about
ooohh i didn't know floridas had wawas :0
yum mango combos ! i haven't had those before , i think i've only had the basic flavors :0 lol did he not share his ??
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ooh i think i just find group dynamics interesting to think about lol , and just like ... different relationship styles, diff ppl interact w world/ppl differently, etc
like some friends we get along rly well when we talk about ideas, but they're awful at like emotional support Lol
or some friends are great abt talking abt , how do you feel abt xyz, but might not be able to "match" u when ur like here's all the ideas i've been thinking about
ooohh i didn't know floridas had wawas :0
yum mango combos ! i haven't had those before , i think i've only had the basic flavors :0 lol did he not share his ??
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ahh it's getting late but i'm feeling hungry lol ...
to sleep or to eat .... that is the question ....
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ahh it's getting late but i'm feeling hungry lol ...
to sleep or to eat .... that is the question ....
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oohhh i didnt know it had dairy
hmmm trying to think of what could be a good quick snack for now ... i am sleepy but i didn't eat a ton for dinner so could be good to eat a lil before bed >w>
lool somethings that taste good in my memory i intentionally won't try again so i can preserve the good association hahaha
like sweets/candy from childhood ... if i had them know they might be too sweet or even gross Lol
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oohhh i didnt know it had dairy
hmmm trying to think of what could be a good quick snack for now ... i am sleepy but i didn't eat a ton for dinner so could be good to eat a lil before bed >w>
lool somethings that taste good in my memory i intentionally won't try again so i can preserve the good association hahaha
like sweets/candy from childhood ... if i had them know they might be too sweet or even gross Lol
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yehh every person has strengths / challenges ... !
i think i like to highlight or like cater to ppls strengths in my relationships ... !
for example if what i need is emotional support i would go to a friend who is good at it + has capacity to do it, i wouldn't go to a friend who like has too much on their plate already or like is p bad at it
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yehh every person has strengths / challenges ... !
i think i like to highlight or like cater to ppls strengths in my relationships ... !
for example if what i need is emotional support i would go to a friend who is good at it + has capacity to do it, i wouldn't go to a friend who like has too much on their plate already or like is p bad at it
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omggg i haven't any sugary cereals in forever and i probably won't for that exact reason lolol
hmm idk what to make to eat Haha what if i just sit here and end up just not .......
actually maybe i'll cut up an apple and eat it w hummus :0
will be protein wo being too heavy right before bed !
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omggg i haven't any sugary cereals in forever and i probably won't for that exact reason lolol
hmm idk what to make to eat Haha what if i just sit here and end up just not .......
actually maybe i'll cut up an apple and eat it w hummus :0
will be protein wo being too heavy right before bed !
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ahh relationships are complicated and it is a balance , like it can be ok to offload if it also means it's ok that she doesn't have to respond or be emotionally present necessarily every time ... or like it's ok for her to say sorry not right now / at this time ... etc
everyone has diff capacities / boundaries so it's just like, being on the same page abt expectations and what ppl can/can't provide sustainably ...
that's how i think abt it for the time being anyway at least :0
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ahh relationships are complicated and it is a balance , like it can be ok to offload if it also means it's ok that she doesn't have to respond or be emotionally present necessarily every time ... or like it's ok for her to say sorry not right now / at this time ... etc
everyone has diff capacities / boundaries so it's just like, being on the same page abt expectations and what ppl can/can't provide sustainably ...
that's how i think abt it for the time being anyway at least :0
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ooh carrots and peppers both go p well w hummus :3
if i'm dipping in hummus it's usually , apples carrots peppers or pita chips ! i think apples are nice cuz they have that crunch aspect (like carrots or chips) as well as that juice aspect (similar to peppers!)
one time my friend's friend's friend's older sister(? lol) made hummus w chocolate chips and dipped apples in it , i think that's how i was like oh this is a snack option
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ooh carrots and peppers both go p well w hummus :3
if i'm dipping in hummus it's usually , apples carrots peppers or pita chips ! i think apples are nice cuz they have that crunch aspect (like carrots or chips) as well as that juice aspect (similar to peppers!)
one time my friend's friend's friend's older sister(? lol) made hummus w chocolate chips and dipped apples in it , i think that's how i was like oh this is a snack option
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boundaries and communication good ~ :-)
yeah exactly ! similar to peanut butter :3
i usually have red pepper or garlic hummus too! i think garlic is better for chips and red pepper is better for sandwiches (tho i'll still do either)
i think apples and red pepper hummus actually work together :0 it's what i'm abt to have lol
i think cuz there's a sweetness to the red pepper .. ?
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yeah exactly ! similar to peanut butter :3
i usually have red pepper or garlic hummus too! i think garlic is better for chips and red pepper is better for sandwiches (tho i'll still do either)
i think apples and red pepper hummus actually work together :0 it's what i'm abt to have lol
i think cuz there's a sweetness to the red pepper .. ?
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ooh i made the hummus + chocolate chips thing once earlier this year :0
tasted similar to vegan cookie dough , except i didn't add too much sweet to it so it wasn't all the way there
i feel like apples and cookie dough would be weird combo though lol if it was too sweet ?
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ooh i made the hummus + chocolate chips thing once earlier this year :0
tasted similar to vegan cookie dough , except i didn't add too much sweet to it so it wasn't all the way there
i feel like apples and cookie dough would be weird combo though lol if it was too sweet ?
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