I honestly dont have much experience in the way of relationships....i've only ever been in two and both havent been stellar. my first one was with a girl who i was really close with and about 5 months into our relationship she came out to me and her family as Asexual which while at the time yes my feeling were hurt i dont hate her nor am i mad at her any more. my second relationship was a long distance one and we both part amicably because i didnt feel comfortable in the relationship...its nothing either of us did....it was based around some experiences i had(posted it in a different post) but i have SEEN and heard enough about various types and forms of relationships to come up with this philosophy..... IF your relationship is HAPPY, HEALTHY, and SAFE.....be with whomever you like. doesnt matter what skin color they have, their appearance, how many...so long as those criteria get met it doesnt matter to me any further...For me i am more into the Heart of the Person(s) i am with than their parts(being pansexual does that lol)