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Donator — pancake Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 21:53:12 )
I've been stressing about the fact that the guy I'm talking to might not be as interested in me as I am in him.
I'd been successfully convincing myself that it was just all in my head until today.
He hasn't read the messages I sent him six hours ago even though he's been online, after telling me last night that he's been staying up late talking to me because he doesn't want me to think he's ignoring me...
So Idk if I'm just annoying or if my concerns were correct, but I'm the sad.
Need cheering up and distractions. :vanora_cry:
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Donator Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 21:56:56 )

You need kitty gifs!

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Donator — pancake Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 22:00:05 )
Awwwww, babies!
I luh them~~~
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Donator Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 22:00:34 )

Yes they are cute.

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Donator — pancake Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 22:02:57 )
Lol. That's the best.
My favorite guy used to do that, but he's lost his taste for bananas.
Now he acts like he wants some until I give him a piece and then he ignores it and walks off.
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Donator Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 22:03:08 )

Hope someone else will keep you company because I am going to bed now. Bye bye :)
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Donator — pancake Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 22:07:39 )
I appreciate your distraction~
Have a good sleep. :]
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Donator — pancake Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 22:28:27 )
@SirLionelNigelConrad: That's where it gets confusing. When I'm too quiet he calls me out on it.
And normally I get fed up with people quickly.
I'm way too picky and this is the first time I've been so interested in someone since my ex and I broke up.
Which is why I'm stressing out so much.
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Donator — He/They Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 23:18:42 )
@blinkini: just be careful alright? bad things emotionally can happen. if you ever need a friend ya got me
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Voltie Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/11 23:21:49 )
ah the good old fboi
ive dated many of those....
just know you deserve better than that and he sucks
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Donator — she/they Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/12 11:22:32 )
Sometimes technical issues happen to make it appear as though someone is online when they are not. Other times people like to be online but can't be social. It could be ANYTHING. Don't let your brain torture you!
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Donator — They/Them Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/12 14:21:21 )
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@Glume: This is very true. Some apps may show you as "online" even when you have your computer closed. The reason being, that if you have it on your mobile phone, you are always logged in unless you specifically log out or change your status.
Meaning, I could go out all day but still appear online because I have the app logged in on my phone. Even though I am busy doing things.
The other thing to consider is that he gripes at you for being too quiet... So here you are trying your best to be social. If he wants to ignore you when you are trying, that's on him. He's being unreasonable. (Of course it's best not to jump to conclusions until you know for certain someone is really brushing you off.)


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Donator — pancake Posted 6 years ago ( 2019/04/12 21:30:04 )
I was legit jumping to conclusions. He got into a big fight with his brother-whom he lives with-and just needed some time to cool down.
I feel like a dumbo. D;
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