now im all sorts of confused sigh
how do u guys deal with confusion and feelings
Forums General Chit-Chat my ex came over today
@blinkini:
LMFAO huge mood
every time i try to cut contact tho he always comes back which confuses me bc hes the one who doesn't want a relationship...
LMFAO huge mood
every time i try to cut contact tho he always comes back which confuses me bc hes the one who doesn't want a relationship...
@mookpooks: Idk, man. Sometimes you just have to cut contact. Like block him or something?
Or let him know how it affects you when he shows up.
Or let him know how it affects you when he shows up.
@blinkini:
idk it's kind of hard bc he's a rlly good friend
we were never in a *real* relationship but i just say ex for the purpose of not being confusing
last time he got weird he said we should stop what we do so i said okay but i need time and i cut him out of my life for a bit, but idk it's weird. he's a strange sadboi i cannot get enough of
idk it's kind of hard bc he's a rlly good friend
we were never in a *real* relationship but i just say ex for the purpose of not being confusing
last time he got weird he said we should stop what we do so i said okay but i need time and i cut him out of my life for a bit, but idk it's weird. he's a strange sadboi i cannot get enough of
@mookpooks: Dude, feels.
But legit, that's when I find a new boy to obsess over and slowly start alienating the first guy.
And then the vicious cycle starts over again...
But legit, that's when I find a new boy to obsess over and slowly start alienating the first guy.
And then the vicious cycle starts over again...
@blinkini:
LMFAO SO RELATABLE OMG
i've tried thoooo but every time i find someone else he gets so jealous and i'm like tf??? u have no right !!!!
im an emomess rn
LMFAO SO RELATABLE OMG
i've tried thoooo but every time i find someone else he gets so jealous and i'm like tf??? u have no right !!!!
im an emomess rn
@blinkini:
lol confrontation is haaaard
@Totalanimefan:
lol i dont care to find anyone tbh relationships don't matter much to me
im a p independent person
lol confrontation is haaaard
@Totalanimefan:
lol i dont care to find anyone tbh relationships don't matter much to me
im a p independent person
I draw it's comforting or find a hobby I enjoy to take my thoughts off of things.
@mookpooks: Hecking same.
That's why I'm just letting the guy I like pull away, without putting up a fight.
If he was really interested he wouldn't be so quick to not converse with me as much, or not want to hangout.
I think he's just being nice.
That's why I'm just letting the guy I like pull away, without putting up a fight.
If he was really interested he wouldn't be so quick to not converse with me as much, or not want to hangout.
I think he's just being nice.
@SirLionelNigelConrad:
oof i hate ultimatums tho those r the worst
@blinkini:
dudes suck and he doesnt deserve u !!!!
oof i hate ultimatums tho those r the worst
@blinkini:
dudes suck and he doesnt deserve u !!!!
@mookpooks: Idk. I'm not that great of a catch. Just very picky... And lonely...
@blinkini:
hey i think it's oka y to be picky
like if you weren't picky and you just "settled" i dont think that is a viable recipe for happiness yo uknow?
hey i think it's oka y to be picky
like if you weren't picky and you just "settled" i dont think that is a viable recipe for happiness yo uknow?
@mookpooks: True. But it also makes me feel as though I'm going to be alone forever. =/
@blinkini:
i think it's hard not to think like that sometimes definitely
but for me when i get in that kind of headpsace i like to take a step back and focus on myself for a bit instead of trying to put my energy into another person
i think it's hard not to think like that sometimes definitely
but for me when i get in that kind of headpsace i like to take a step back and focus on myself for a bit instead of trying to put my energy into another person
@mookpooks: Oh, all of my energy goes into me, anymore.
I legitimately spend all of my time by myself and in my head.
I think my problem is that I need to get out more.
Even if that means going on dates.
But I'm too nervous and shy, so I turn down 99% of the guys that ask me out.
I legitimately spend all of my time by myself and in my head.
I think my problem is that I need to get out more.
Even if that means going on dates.
But I'm too nervous and shy, so I turn down 99% of the guys that ask me out.
@Bioshock:
yea ur right i just
have problems with letting people go even if they r bad for me which is somethin i have to work on
@blinkini:
yeah i feel that
dating is so hard esp getting urself out there
i have rlly bad social anxiety so most of my relationships start on the internet or from friends- also one time from tinder lmfaoooooooo
yea ur right i just
have problems with letting people go even if they r bad for me which is somethin i have to work on
@blinkini:
yeah i feel that
dating is so hard esp getting urself out there
i have rlly bad social anxiety so most of my relationships start on the internet or from friends- also one time from tinder lmfaoooooooo
@mookpooks: I do the online dating thing, but it never really gets much farther than flirting...
When I go out and socialize with friends I'm always too nervous to approach anyone.
=/
I'm trying to lose weight so I'm happier with my appearance and hopefully more confident.
When I go out and socialize with friends I'm always too nervous to approach anyone.
=/
I'm trying to lose weight so I'm happier with my appearance and hopefully more confident.
@blinkini:
hey just keep workin on ur confidence and urself and it will happen
i believe in u and ur doin great~
hey just keep workin on ur confidence and urself and it will happen
i believe in u and ur doin great~
ping me pls/
im pooks the resident emo
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