[ Eating soap is gross, but I know people who've done it. ]
[ Eating soap is gross, but I know people who've done it. ]
[ Woo! So I'm modding for the furry group, and like the group creator is very mad with me right now. ]
[ It all started when a member was having a rough day with his depression. He did snap at people and cause a little bit of a problem. So when he got suspended him and all of us understood why. He later apologized to the people he snapped at. Him and a few of us all openly discussed the incident. Because I don't do that 'mods only knowledge' stuff. I believe in being completely open and honest about things. Well he wanted me to ask the group creator if his time out was over. She went off on me. That was being partial to him because he's a friend, that I was deceptive and disrespectful for NOT kicking him from my porn channel, and basically that I'm a terrible mod. Because I don't think what happened is as big of a deal as she does. ]
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Kirisis, [26.04.19 09:55]
As a mod, what did you tell him?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 09:56]
Said I'd ask.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 09:59]
As a mod and not his friend, does a week and some change suspension feel like an acceptable suspension length to you?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:00]
I believe so, based on his behavior in After Dark.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:01]
I can't see that and honestly, he should have been suspended from that as well
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:03]
That was my decision to make.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:05]
Oh? So if someone is suspended from the main chat for being rude and disrespectful towards the members, you think it's a fair call to let them remain in an auxiliary chat?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:08]
It's a case by case for me. And I'm not going to leave someone completely alone like that.
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:10]
But since the blow up, I have openly discussed it with him. That he needs help outside of just chat. He knows what he did was wrong, and is going to seek help.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:11]
[In reply to Movie Addict (formerly Hunter)]
Did you extend the same courtesy to Granom?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:11]
He never wanted to be in the porn chat, so that was never going to be an issue.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:12]
But would you have?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:12]
Yes I would have.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:13]
I feel like you're being impartial to Red because he is your friend and you have a stake in this because of it.
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:13]
Then you're well within your rights to say no.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:14]
I know I am
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:14]
Would I like him to come back into the fold? Yes. Is he a friend yes. But I do respect your choices. Please also in turn respect mine.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:15]
If you were just a regular person and not someone who came to me asking to take a leadership in this chat, then we would not be having this conversation.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:16]
But Hunter, if you want respect, you have to give it first and you haven't been truthful with me because he is still in the group and you undercut my decision, which was deceptive and disrespectful of you
As a mod, what did you tell him?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 09:56]
Said I'd ask.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 09:59]
As a mod and not his friend, does a week and some change suspension feel like an acceptable suspension length to you?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:00]
I believe so, based on his behavior in After Dark.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:01]
I can't see that and honestly, he should have been suspended from that as well
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:03]
That was my decision to make.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:05]
Oh? So if someone is suspended from the main chat for being rude and disrespectful towards the members, you think it's a fair call to let them remain in an auxiliary chat?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:08]
It's a case by case for me. And I'm not going to leave someone completely alone like that.
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:10]
But since the blow up, I have openly discussed it with him. That he needs help outside of just chat. He knows what he did was wrong, and is going to seek help.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:11]
[In reply to Movie Addict (formerly Hunter)]
Did you extend the same courtesy to Granom?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:11]
He never wanted to be in the porn chat, so that was never going to be an issue.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:12]
But would you have?
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:12]
Yes I would have.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:13]
I feel like you're being impartial to Red because he is your friend and you have a stake in this because of it.
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:13]
Then you're well within your rights to say no.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:14]
I know I am
Movie Addict (formerly Hunter), [26.04.19 10:14]
Would I like him to come back into the fold? Yes. Is he a friend yes. But I do respect your choices. Please also in turn respect mine.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:15]
If you were just a regular person and not someone who came to me asking to take a leadership in this chat, then we would not be having this conversation.
Kirisis, [26.04.19 10:16]
But Hunter, if you want respect, you have to give it first and you haven't been truthful with me because he is still in the group and you undercut my decision, which was deceptive and disrespectful of you
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If he apologised and the people he snapped at accepted the apology, it should be over and done
Jeez. Does she/he think they’re Stalin or something?
If he apologised and the people he snapped at accepted the apology, it should be over and done
Jeez. Does she/he think they’re Stalin or something?
[ She's way overreacting to the entire situation. This is what she posted immediately after the incident that happened.
Okay, I'm going to say this once and I'm not saying it again: Treat others how you want to be treated. If you want people to respect you, please show them the same courtesy and respect that you believe that you deserve.
Times are tough and I know a few tempers are running high as of late, mine included, but that's no reason to snap at people who are genuinely trying to help you because they care or be overly sensitive
If you put yourself out there to solicit advice, either take what you need and leave what you don't, or don't solicit advice. If someone is venting, don't come down on them with more criticism and negativity because that's not what they're looking for.
I'm saying this one time and one time only: If your actions bring toxicity to the group or make others feel uncomfortable, I WILL REMOVE YOU. It's not up for discussion or a debate and I'm tired of having to hand-hold and deal with adults like they're little kids. I and the mod team do this on a VOLUNTEER basis and we're not here for the added stress of a VOLUNTEER organization as if it were a job paying our bills.
If anyone feels raw about what I've said, feel free to DM me, but come correct because my block game is strong today. I got time today.
Times are tough and I know a few tempers are running high as of late, mine included, but that's no reason to snap at people who are genuinely trying to help you because they care or be overly sensitive
If you put yourself out there to solicit advice, either take what you need and leave what you don't, or don't solicit advice. If someone is venting, don't come down on them with more criticism and negativity because that's not what they're looking for.
I'm saying this one time and one time only: If your actions bring toxicity to the group or make others feel uncomfortable, I WILL REMOVE YOU. It's not up for discussion or a debate and I'm tired of having to hand-hold and deal with adults like they're little kids. I and the mod team do this on a VOLUNTEER basis and we're not here for the added stress of a VOLUNTEER organization as if it were a job paying our bills.
If anyone feels raw about what I've said, feel free to DM me, but come correct because my block game is strong today. I got time today.
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So she wants people to show respect without showing it herself and will kick and block people who don’t agree with her? Mmkay
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So she wants people to show respect without showing it herself and will kick and block people who don’t agree with her? Mmkay
[ I'm starting to understand why her relationship with my ex had so many problems. But she just seems to have it out for anyone with a mental illness. ]
[ She has me so livid right now, and I'm also worried that I'll get fired. ]
[ Yeah, she's kind of a bitch. ]
[ Kind of reminds me of how things ran on Solia. Just a little bit. ]
[ Came really close to breaking my 'no drama' rule for my channel, by telling everyone it was no longer 'attached' to main chat. But that would just escalate things. ]
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Remember the long rant I posted on Solia that got me banned?
Hmm... those were the days
Remember the long rant I posted on Solia that got me banned?
Hmm... those were the days
[ Which is why I'm bitching everywhere else and NOT to the furries. Minus two. But that's also why I have the whole conversation saved. So I can defend myself if I ever need to. ]
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Having you as a Voltie would be awesome.