@kiwi: I love when white cishets are like WHAT IF I WAS A MINORITY!!?!?! like why are you worried..... do minorities get treated badly? :-///// it's so disingenuous SMHHH. it's such a self-victimization and so rude

It is a small fam/friends event but still a lot to squeeze between xmas and new years. We will do our best yknow?