Alexis's posts

She was also one of the main factors in my last relationship blowing up. I'm over it now, but she hated my ex and even went as far as to make up lies to the rest of my family members to get them to shame me and such. It was hard because my dad didn't want to at least talk to her about it so I was on my own when it came to dealing with it. My ex didn't even do anything wrong which sucks, he just didn't reach my mom's standards in looks. He even tried making the effort to talk to her but she didn't even give him the chance.
Other than that shes treated some of my friends really poorly and would say all these mean things about them and their families. It makes me angry every time this happens so I've learned to just not bring people home anymore because I rather not hear it :P.
Ugh plus whenever we are eating out in some restaurant she is soooo rude to the servers. She gets mad when food takes longer than 5 minutes to make and will start making comments that are just degrading. I'm a server myself so it just makes me so irritated lol. I often apologize for her behavior when servers get noticeably irritated.
Other than restaurants, in public spaces she will literally yell at someone to move if their in the way instead of just saying excuse me.
What really bothers me when I'm out in public with her is the fact is that she will openly act racist or homophobic with no remorse and tries to joke about it with me. I don't support this at all and when people around us hear her making such jokes and comments I feel horrible about it because its just so rude and unnecessary. Even when I'm saying things to try and get her to stop she just keeps going on and it gets worse x_x.

Despite everything, I try to keep my peace at home. I do my best to avoid conflict with her and have accepted the fact that she does not want to change her ways. I know I'm not perfect either but I'm doing my best to coexist.