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Posted in Hi! Posted 5 years ago
Hey Cup and welcome! I’m new too and already loving the site so far. Your avatars already heckin nice even if it’s not perfect yet.

What kind of thing do you like to rp? I haven’t done an rp in ages but I’m debating if I should give it a try here. I haven’t looked in the rp forum yet.
Thanks for the ping! There’s already some really great art and resources here. I’m excited to try stuff out.


@koneko: i like the contrast of the flame to the candle itself
Posted in I feel gross and creeped on Posted 5 years ago
First let me say I think it’s adorable that you have two dates for your marriage like that, that’s very cool.

I’ve grown to take absolutely no bs from anyone, so my answer is always, “if you dont like them on your Facebook, unfriend them.” From interacting with “normal people” I’ve come to understand this isn’t everyone’s ideal solution though. It is important to put your own comfort and safety first though. Even if you make it so he can’t see your Facebook posts, if knowing he’s there weirds you out, then it might be best to unfriend him and if someone brings it up, be real with them and let them know he was making you uncomfortable.

As was mentioned, you could have a second Facebook profile where you only add people you really like. This seems to be pretty common practice, especially for people who aren’t straight and whose straight family make them uncomfortable or pressure them in to not being themselves. I did that several years back and it has since become my only Facebook account, and I don’t add people I don’t actually want to have on there.

A more mellow option could be to just leave things as is for awhile and see what happens. Could be he’ll mellow out and there won’t be another incident like this. I know that kind of thing can kinda sting and follow you around for awhile, but it might not be a bad idea to let things cool down before making a decision.
Posted in Soulles Posted 5 years ago
Ah that sucks, I’m sorry. My wife used to live with a roommate who was like that. Never paid rent or helped with groceries, but somehow could always afford brand new video games and consoles.....
Posted in remember those.. pixel threads Posted 5 years ago
I never got into pixel cafes but I do love pixel art. I’ll check out the hangout when it gets going. I’m pretty interested in pixel art but haven’t tried doing it yet.
Posted in I’m getting married in 3 hours! Posted 5 years ago
Thank you all for the well wishes !! It was a super casual, super loving ceremony. My dad was great the whole time and even kicked us a little money for a one day honeymoon so that was super cool.
Posted in I’m getting married in 3 hours! Posted 5 years ago
My fiancée and I decided on a last minute wedding cuz we’re tired of waiting and don’t want to push it out to 2020. I work nights and so I just woke up and in 3 hours we’re having a small ceremony. I’m so excited!

Also nervous because I’m trans, and I only recently told my dad, and he’s supportive and coming to the wedding but this will be the first time seeing him since I started transitioning. I think we’re both nervous about how it’s going to go but I’m so excited he’s going to be there.

Posted in Hobo's Dump Box of Art Posted 5 years ago
Whaaa your art is so good. I especially love the glowing effect on the last dragon prince piece. (Your avatar is also one of my favs I’ve seen so far)
Posted in SECRET ART EXCHANGE 2019 [GIFTS POSTED] Posted 5 years ago
This is such a cool idea for a gift exchange! Hopefully I’ll still be around the site next year if you do it again
Posted in Hello Posted 5 years ago
Hey there and welcome back! I’ve known only one shamus in passing around some other sites, could be you’re the one and only?

Glad you’re back, and I adore your avatar.
Posted in Come Bump With Me You Know You Wanna XD ;) Posted 5 years ago
Bump, and happy holidays
Posted in New blood spill on isle 6 Posted 5 years ago
Hey there! I’m new too but wanted to check out other intro threads. Love your art! If I ever get around to making an art insta myself I’ll follow you.