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Posted in Living Alone Posted 2 years ago
@MoodyB: yeah the roommate bit is completely understandable, but for some, can be unavoidable. I wish you luck with it. it is totally worth it, and helps alot with mental load if you know what to expect. also paying rent at the end of the month instead of the first of the month will give you bonus points with your landlord. that why if you do hit hard times theyre more likely to be easier on you because you already have that "responsible" label on you.
Posted in Living Alone Posted 2 years ago
@MoodyB: if you can afford it, its defintely worth it, but it does bring up some new stresssers because then you are the only one that can clean up or care for the apartment/ house and that in itself takes alot of mental energy and focus (I have adhd and struggle with it myself) just know that it doesnt have to be perfect, it just has to be good enough for you.
even if you still have to asks for rides and stuff the independence that comes with being in your own place is so worth it. i wouldnt recommend roommates, theyre MORE of a stresser and can be worse than living with your family. If you can do it alone i would. (I know that in this current state thats not always easy or possible. If you do the roommate route, make sure you ask alot of questions on how they intented to keep up their space or about doing house work, and draw up a small contract saying like any damage done to your apartment or property allows you to kick them out immediately or whatever. and best of luck!)
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Totalanimefan: Yeah i feel you on that. itll be dark at like 5 pm and it feels like 10pm
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Totalanimefan: yeah i like spring, my birthday is in spring and yeah same, too much rain this year not enough snow for me. and honestly spring has the best temps imo. and everything coming back to life after winter is such a nice feeling but i have allergies to so im usually always stuffed up and have a runny nose lmao
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Totalanimefan: honestly i really like the cold, being able to bundle up and hanving hot drinks and soups. but also just how quiet it is when its snowing and its night time and the out side is only lit by steetlamps. ugh i crave it and i havent gotten it yet this year
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Totalanimefan: eh, not really i love winter so much. only thing is, is that this winter sucked ass. i had the worst year, after having a shit year, after having a shit year and now i cant ene get snow. its snowed like 4 times but not once has it stayed more than a few hours.
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Totalanimefan: i see i see im glad you had a great weekend!!
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Justice: haha i feel you on the bad memory , mines pretty bad too lol.
well it sounds like you had a great day!!
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Justice: yay! im glad you had a good day! what made it so good, if you dont mind me asking?
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Justice: awesome! things are okay right now. my son got picked up by his father a couple hours ago, and i already miss him but the alone time is good what about you?
Posted in Smilies Update! Posted 2 years ago
thanks for the update!! i love the smiles theyre so cute!!!!
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Justice: Hey there how are you? n.n
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@Totalanimefan: haha thanks! i've had an extremely busy week! but ive been doing well thanks! how have you been doing?
Posted in Josie's Chill Spot Posted 2 years ago
@macsen191: oo that book sounds really cool! whats it about?
i used to read books in hs, now i have a child and my adhd absolutely nopes out of a book now a days lmao