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Millet, spilling the tea:


I've read everyones posts! Not sure if it is okay for me to respond to people so I'll refrain just incase but wow what a wide variety of representation we have here. Also learning a bit more about everyone on a stronger personal note adds context for sure. I'm glad so many of you were comfortable sharing.
Millet, spilling the tea:





I'm not blind I can acknowledge someone is hot or attractive, but I literally do not feel sexually attracted to anyone
unless I've formed a close connection to them. That isn't a pretentious choice based thing, that's just how my mind and body work.
I physically cannot get aroused if I don't consider myself close to you. It's been an issue back when I was single as it seems culture is
very oriented around sex and having sex to determine compatibility but I can't and its been hard to find people that understand that.
I'm in a loving relationship right now though and he was very patient.

I'm also bisexual.Very much so capable of falling in love/becoming aroused with any person of any background or gender once that connection is established. Unfortunately after I had started dating a girl my father's side of the family heavily retaliated against me. Them being heavily catholic. They are no longer in my life for many reasons- one of which they could not accept that I was at the time /seeing/ a girl and I never want them to be of influence or source of shame again if in the event my partner and I don't work out and I choose to be with a girl again.
(I mean hopefully my dude and I make it through but if not ya know. just sayin')

I'm also quite tired of the common belief that all bisexuals are some kinda sexual deviants who aren't capable of monogamy? If someone isn't monogamous that's totally fine so long as any relationship is open and honest. But bi does not equal poly. And through past experiences I've found lesbians who didn't want to get closer to me because I'm bi, and straight dudes who think bi translates to threesomes. It's exhausting and annoying.

Edit: uh, according to an article I read I guess I'm not bisexual but pansexual. Whelp. The more ya know lol.



How bout you?
Posted in My favorite season is starting soon... Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


ALRIGHT! I shall write up a play by plays highlight moments for everyone xD
Naturally with my own sprinkling of sarcasm and interpretation.
Posted in My favorite season is starting soon... Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


If you guys want! I can write up a play by play here when it starts next week!
Posted in My favorite season is starting soon... Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


It really is disgusting, Total!

But yes, lots of laughs to be made during this season.

Posted in My favorite season is starting soon... Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


Narcolepsy is for life unfortunately. I have a wonderful medication that makes it seem I'm almost not a narcoleptic. But unfortunately it costs $3,800 a month so my insurance every quarter sends me a letter saying they don't want to cover it any longer and I've three times so far needed to get a lawyer to fight for my right to keep my medication.

Without it, at worst I risk going back to sleeping beauty syndrome- which was 18-22 hours of me sleeping every day.

at best I will randomly fall asleep every hour or every other hour or so throughout the day and have random episodes of paralysis from basic stimuli such as laughing or hearing a sudden loud noise. My body will burn in pain most days- through out the entirety of the day.

This medicine is what literally allows me to function mostly normal but its the only one of its kind.
Which means $CHA-CHING$
Posted in My favorite season is starting soon... Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


I'm okay.
Posted in My favorite season is starting soon... Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


Did you think I meant summer? HELL, NO! I hate the heat and the cold never bothered me anyway!

But my favorite season...is DEBATE SEASON!!
For the USA every three years DEBATE SEASON starts. (Yes, I'm going to capitalize that every time like a businessman basking in the broken system of capitalism.)

I love DEBATE SEASON. I love watching people argue their thoughts left and right and watching people climb while others dreams of dominating the podium utterly, and pathetically become crushed under the weight of scrutiny and a lack of eloquence.

It's a depressing world we live in and rarely do the under dogs make any waves- but one can hope things will change eventually-amiright? No- I'm left but that's okay and you're okay.

DEBATE SEASON to me, is football season to the bro chads out there. I watch both parties debates and find them kind of exhilirating, depressingly comical, etc. The one and only time in my life I became black out drunk and needed the emergency room, was last debate season when I decided to play the shot game of HIllary versus Trump. Within 20 minutes, my fiance had to call an ambulance. The shot game was a killer experiment. anywho I don't drink anymore after that. scary stuff.

Just felt like sharing that'll be my passion for the next few months as I continue to wonder if my narcolepsy medication will always cost $3,800 a month and if I'll always have to keep fighting my insurance for coverage every few months with a lawyer until the insurance eventually wins and I rot incapable of functioning like a normal person but won't be applicable for disability because narcolepsy is unknown by the people that make those decisions and I'm young. As my medical debt exceeds my student loan debt preventing me from moving on with my life. :) least I can't say I'm lonely with all those debt collection calls and letters in the mail of interest. That one broken tooth cost $2,000 fix so oh well not doing that. Hahahahahaha



TL;DR It's DEBATE SEASON for the USA. Let the games begin continue.
Click here for the double night line up of democratic debates.
Posted in ***MATCHA'S GACHA*** Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


I always pick fours on these things because 4 is my lucky number. :3
Posted in i have the worst luck Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


Reminds me of winter orbs. My luck was uh, weird?

Opened 6 Danceur orbs and got five Danceurs, the rarest....When I was trying to get the uncommon items lololol
Posted in Animal Crossing: New Horizons! Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


I like how we can share the controller with someone we live with too!
Posted in Win a VIRTUOUS GUARD! (Bioshock won) Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


(Though I'm not sure the number generator permits multiple generations didn't check)
Posted in Win a VIRTUOUS GUARD! (Bioshock won) Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


@totalanimefan: youd have to generate 4 numbers, 0-40 and get all those numbers.
Posted in Animal Crossing: New Horizons! Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


I find it comical Nook actually charges you for the cell phone he shoves on you. LOL