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Posted in SassyBuns Cafe [Open!] Posted 7 years ago



hey alia c:
how are you today?


Posted in dami dami Posted 7 years ago



hey there :D
i hope you enjoy it here
and i hope to see you around!


Posted in SassyBuns Cafe [Open!] Posted 7 years ago



@AelloTyphoeus: i agreee. esp if they pop out right away. sad.

oh yay! i'm happy for you :D
the items are lovely.


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@AelloTyphoeus: *rolls around* :P
right! i hate that they vanish when they dont catch a pokemon like.
whyyy lol

im good and thank youuu
how are you?


Posted in SassyBuns Cafe [Open!] Posted 7 years ago



@AelloTyphoeus: :O!
*smacks pokeball back at you*


Posted in SassyBuns Cafe [Open!] Posted 7 years ago



*rolls through thread*

helloo~?





@kawaii slowpoke: Why would he feel like that?
You should sit down and have a talk, let him list the reasons he feels that and if you feel you arent doing any of that
you guys need to figure out how to communicate love between you.

I understand being upset about that, but that is not something he should hide.
nothing will get better and you will both cause great anxiety to yourself and paranoia and all that :<

Make sure he knows that you can't do anything about it if you dont know how he feels.
<3
maybe we should pm. i can go on FOREVER about things like this.





@Kawaii Slowpoke: yes you should. you do deserve the 'need some space' text at least.
sigh, i hope he doesnt blow up. if he does, it's okay to stand your ground. because you deserve to
feel important to your partner!!





@teemo: how are you today?
c:





@Kawaii Slowpoke: It sounds like he needs to really think about his own actions.
It's really hard to get someone so set in how they act to see how bad the behavior actually is.
Like I said, he really can be blind to what his actions are doing, he just needs to see this and not just try to hold power over you.
and the picture thing is silly. i do not think it makes you a hypocrite, just because you are comfortable with something that is a little different doesnt make you a hypocrite. sigh.

no problem dear c: i'm glad i was here to talk with you!


@teemo: happy halloween!





@Kawaii Slowpoke: Yes I do. I've been in similar situations.
It's taken me a long time to not just settle because things are okay. They should be more than okay, even if every relationship has its challenges.
You should be able to talk freely about your feelings.
There is nothing wrong with writing things down, or figuring out a way to make sure both of your points get talked about.
If he does these things even if he know you dont like it, thats mean. :/

I'm not good at talking either. My bf is really good i suppose. I think he goes off topic more than I like and we still yell at each other
but we usually come to conclusions and it's not a who's hurt more match. :<
i am always here to talk if you need it, dear. <3





@Kawaii Slowpoke: that really does suck.
but you also need to think about if you can deal with this forever, especially if he wont change his passive aggressive ways.
if he has replied to other messages and left you on read, he's doing it on purpose.
there are always misunderstandings but this seems to be a reoccurring thing for you.
things should not be emotionally unfair.
he may not realize the toll this has on you, or could potentially have on your relationship so this is a serious sit down talk kind of thing.
:<





@Kawaii Slowpoke: yikes. he needs to grow up Dx
he could be great otherwise but this is ridiiiculous.
good! because that's unfair to you.
and unhealthy and if he's not willing to change then he's not worth your time man. ugh Dx

@rainbowpanda: woo Dx





sorry for vanishing guys,
i found stamps and sent my rent xDD

@kawaii slowpoke: you should bring it up.
communication is so important Dx
he sounds very immature for dealing with things that way :<