Squishy Sloth's posts
Posted in i just typed out a whole post and deleted it
Posted 5 years ago
@LordLucre: downloads garage band and learns black parade B)
Posted in Kai’s Cabin
Posted 5 years ago
@Raxton: heh hello again UwU
ur avatar is adorable!
also yes theyre still available!
ill start the trade~
ur avatar is adorable!
also yes theyre still available!
ill start the trade~
Posted in little kandi raver shes my number 1
Posted 5 years ago
@star2000shadow: thats not a very accessible bath tub :/
i think you could complain about that, since an accessible bathroom is supposed to at LEAST have a chair, or rails that you can hold onto
i think you could complain about that, since an accessible bathroom is supposed to at LEAST have a chair, or rails that you can hold onto
Posted in i just typed out a whole post and deleted it
Posted 5 years ago
@LordLucre: it'd be so fun! kinda wanna just G note everyone LMAO
@Bioshock:
@Totalanimefan:
you guys seem pretty good with words to me, you always know what to say~ im glad people seem to understand tho!
@Siron: i genuinely really hate the word edgy lately, also the clown emoji is really getting on my nerves ew
its kind of annoying how people will just invalidate your feelings instead of helping you :/
everyone on here is really kind though, finding voltra was honestly the best thing that has happened this year!
btw your avatar is adorable!~
@Bioshock:
@Totalanimefan:
you guys seem pretty good with words to me, you always know what to say~ im glad people seem to understand tho!
@Siron: i genuinely really hate the word edgy lately, also the clown emoji is really getting on my nerves ew
its kind of annoying how people will just invalidate your feelings instead of helping you :/
everyone on here is really kind though, finding voltra was honestly the best thing that has happened this year!
btw your avatar is adorable!~
Posted in i just typed out a whole post and deleted it
Posted 5 years ago
@LordLucre: you seem pretty good with words to me! if i knew how to play an instrument id probably try and communicate with that honestly
@Tsundererra: ahh i know, ive seen so many people with it that really i should KNOW that im not alone, but for some reason my brain is like "no ur alone" like shut up brain
voltra is a very nice community though, everyone is so sweet here
@Tsundererra: ahh i know, ive seen so many people with it that really i should KNOW that im not alone, but for some reason my brain is like "no ur alone" like shut up brain
voltra is a very nice community though, everyone is so sweet here
Posted in Dream Quests
Posted 5 years ago
@dragoness129: heh thank you!
Io's set is one of my favourites~
Io's set is one of my favourites~
Posted in little kandi raver shes my number 1
Posted 5 years ago
@star2000shadow: well, thats not very accessible! does it at least have one of those chairs?
@myotis: oh my god i LOVED basshunter
i think Dota was originally swedish? or something like that? i cant remeber rip
but surprisingly my mum introudced me to basshunter LMAO
i never experienced raves either, but i mean im not complaining because nightclubs scare me ):
ive heard foam parties are fun tho!
also samurai jack was amazing and i really need to watch the new one omg
@myotis: oh my god i LOVED basshunter
i think Dota was originally swedish? or something like that? i cant remeber rip
but surprisingly my mum introudced me to basshunter LMAO
i never experienced raves either, but i mean im not complaining because nightclubs scare me ):
ive heard foam parties are fun tho!
also samurai jack was amazing and i really need to watch the new one omg
Posted in Transgender
Posted 5 years ago
@SirLionelNigelConrad: i dont think communities should be seen as bad because of a few people. for example, where i live is generally seen as a bad place because of the amount of crime, gangs, etc. there are also pretty nice people here, but its seen as bad because of the bad people.
id say the same could be sad for many other communities. the problem with knowing who is 'fake trans' and who isnt, is that no one will ever really know. if it was easy to tell i feel like this wouldnt be a discussion people actively have.
and thats the thing, people say that youre fake trans if you dont conform to gender roles, but neither do many cis people which gets really annoying if youre a trans guy and you want to wear makeup but people call you fake trans for it.
i dont think we'll ever really know for sure who is fake trans and who isnt, because theres no real way to tell, and some people think theyre trans but later learn they are not, but i hope one day no one will have to discuss this anymore.
id say the same could be sad for many other communities. the problem with knowing who is 'fake trans' and who isnt, is that no one will ever really know. if it was easy to tell i feel like this wouldnt be a discussion people actively have.
and thats the thing, people say that youre fake trans if you dont conform to gender roles, but neither do many cis people which gets really annoying if youre a trans guy and you want to wear makeup but people call you fake trans for it.
i dont think we'll ever really know for sure who is fake trans and who isnt, because theres no real way to tell, and some people think theyre trans but later learn they are not, but i hope one day no one will have to discuss this anymore.
Posted in i just typed out a whole post and deleted it
Posted 5 years ago
thank you guys! i actually feel better today, thank god.
also i love the picnic thing, thats a good way of seeing it!
im not very good at saying how i feel in general so im just glad the post made any sense tbh, ive never been good at it. im glad people seem to understand!
i mean, its not good that people feel the same but like, i can talk to people who will understand so like, thats good you know?
thank you guys, its nice knowing people care <3
ps im like really bad at knowing what to say ):
@Hazer:
@Bioshock:
@Alexis:
@Tsundererra:
@Totalanimefan:
@koneko:
@SirLionelNigelConrad:
@LordLucre:
also i love the picnic thing, thats a good way of seeing it!
im not very good at saying how i feel in general so im just glad the post made any sense tbh, ive never been good at it. im glad people seem to understand!
i mean, its not good that people feel the same but like, i can talk to people who will understand so like, thats good you know?
thank you guys, its nice knowing people care <3
ps im like really bad at knowing what to say ):
@Hazer:
@Bioshock:
@Alexis:
@Tsundererra:
@Totalanimefan:
@koneko:
@SirLionelNigelConrad:
@LordLucre:
Posted in i just typed out a whole post and deleted it
Posted 5 years ago
i dont know if this should be in the serious talk forum but its about posting in it so, thats where im putting it.
so, i just typed out a WHOLE post, and then deleted it when i got to the end because i thought "no one will care, you'll just sound like youre edgy or want attention, etc" you know the drill.
and thats the thing, i feel like when you post something on, say, twitter, people either dont care or call you edgy or accuse you of wanting attention. and it makes you not want to talk about your mental state or feelings.
i would LOVE to post a whole post, paragraphs and all, talking about my anxiety, my mental state, how i feel, being trans and how that makes me feel, etc, but im always worried that someone will just try and lecture me about whatever or call me 'edgy' (god i hate that word).
like, reddit has whole subs for stuff like this and i cant even post on those.
maybe its my anxiety, maybe its how a lot of people feel. i dont know. but hey, if you see this it means i didnt just delete this one LMAO
also this is how i feel, enjoy the memes
so, i just typed out a WHOLE post, and then deleted it when i got to the end because i thought "no one will care, you'll just sound like youre edgy or want attention, etc" you know the drill.
and thats the thing, i feel like when you post something on, say, twitter, people either dont care or call you edgy or accuse you of wanting attention. and it makes you not want to talk about your mental state or feelings.
i would LOVE to post a whole post, paragraphs and all, talking about my anxiety, my mental state, how i feel, being trans and how that makes me feel, etc, but im always worried that someone will just try and lecture me about whatever or call me 'edgy' (god i hate that word).
like, reddit has whole subs for stuff like this and i cant even post on those.
maybe its my anxiety, maybe its how a lot of people feel. i dont know. but hey, if you see this it means i didnt just delete this one LMAO
also this is how i feel, enjoy the memes
Posted in Post your Rants
Posted 5 years ago
i have wanted to make a post on this forum but i feel like no one will listen or ill just get some half assed reply or something. i KNOW ill get one, in fact. no one will care, no one ever does. i want to talk about so much but i feel like people only care when im buying or selling something. otherwise its like im not there. i sound so selfish rn bc like, i get replies, but i just feel like my serious topics are never taken seriously and people will just find a way to make me feel even worse. i hate it. i hate me.
Posted in Transgender
Posted 5 years ago
okay something i need to say here: if cis men can wear skirts, dresses, makeup, etc, why cant trans men?
now that thats out of the way, some replies
@SirLionelNigelConrad: yes, groups can be basically ruined by a few people doing wrong, but looking up the Proud Boys, it said that they are 'far right neo-facist'. not sure i want to associate with them ngl.
i think the whole point is that, we cannot tell people that they are 'fake trans' just because they are a feminine male or masculine female. yes, most trans females want to be feminine, and most trans males want to be masculine, for example i desperately want to grow a beard. HOWEVER there are also nonbinary folk, who will also identify as 'trans nonbinary', ive also seen some identify as 'trans femme/masc', and they will also start transitioning in some cases.
now, im not too informed on what its like to be nonbinary, but theres a nonbinary model i follow called Trinity Bree, and they started testosterone to be more androgynous and masculine. not ALL nonbinary people want to be androgynous, or will start hormone treatment, but some do.
they may also feel dysphoric about their bodies, which would make them trans by definition. so, if you need dysphoria to be trans, that would include the nonbinary people that feel dysphoria but leave out the ones that dont.
also @Bioshock: i dont think they meant to be transphobic, but i see where you're coming from. btw correct me if im wrong, im getting all this from encounters with nonbinary friends, plus the model i mentioned
block away though, your mental health matters <3
id @ everyone but im lazy lmao
now that thats out of the way, some replies
@SirLionelNigelConrad: yes, groups can be basically ruined by a few people doing wrong, but looking up the Proud Boys, it said that they are 'far right neo-facist'. not sure i want to associate with them ngl.
i think the whole point is that, we cannot tell people that they are 'fake trans' just because they are a feminine male or masculine female. yes, most trans females want to be feminine, and most trans males want to be masculine, for example i desperately want to grow a beard. HOWEVER there are also nonbinary folk, who will also identify as 'trans nonbinary', ive also seen some identify as 'trans femme/masc', and they will also start transitioning in some cases.
now, im not too informed on what its like to be nonbinary, but theres a nonbinary model i follow called Trinity Bree, and they started testosterone to be more androgynous and masculine. not ALL nonbinary people want to be androgynous, or will start hormone treatment, but some do.
they may also feel dysphoric about their bodies, which would make them trans by definition. so, if you need dysphoria to be trans, that would include the nonbinary people that feel dysphoria but leave out the ones that dont.
also @Bioshock: i dont think they meant to be transphobic, but i see where you're coming from. btw correct me if im wrong, im getting all this from encounters with nonbinary friends, plus the model i mentioned
block away though, your mental health matters <3
id @ everyone but im lazy lmao
Posted in little kandi raver shes my number 1
Posted 5 years ago
@star2000shadow: thats not a very good bath tub >.<
maybe a spa day?
maybe a spa day?
Posted in Transgender
Posted 5 years ago
so, my view on this whole thing has changed a few times, but here’s my view: Jessica Yaniv, the person you were talking about, is terrible. she has been called out by a LOT of people, i don’t know if anything has happened since i first saw it, but by the sound of it, it hasn’t.
However, Jessica doesn’t define the trans community as a whole. people can identify with whatever they want, that’s cool with me. The thing is, there are people who are trans but cannot transition for whatever reason, be it medical or otherwise. I didn’t start transitioning until recently, but i realised i’m trans about 3 years ago. that doesn’t make me any less trans.
i do think that there are probably people who just say they’re trans because they think it’s ‘cool’, but i also believe that some may THINK they’re trans and later realise that they’re not. THAT is not transtrending.
i understand what you mean, and i understand why others think it doesn’t exist. i don’t know whether it does or not, but i think it’s kind of difficult to really know whether someone is lying about being trans or not because every trans person is different.
However, Jessica doesn’t define the trans community as a whole. people can identify with whatever they want, that’s cool with me. The thing is, there are people who are trans but cannot transition for whatever reason, be it medical or otherwise. I didn’t start transitioning until recently, but i realised i’m trans about 3 years ago. that doesn’t make me any less trans.
i do think that there are probably people who just say they’re trans because they think it’s ‘cool’, but i also believe that some may THINK they’re trans and later realise that they’re not. THAT is not transtrending.
i understand what you mean, and i understand why others think it doesn’t exist. i don’t know whether it does or not, but i think it’s kind of difficult to really know whether someone is lying about being trans or not because every trans person is different.