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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/2 13:51:55 )
@Totalanimefan:


Good for her to step up and say "no" and ignore him. It sounds like the usual bluster from this "personality", and to-be-expected threats in a last-ditch effort to bring her back in to compliance in his little mentally unbalanced world. I seriously doubt he'll do anything like filing paperwork on the "stolen" dog - it's just the last thing he has available to try holding over her head (i.e. it's probably just a threat, unless he's truly that obsessed and controlling). If he does file paperwork (assuming that's even possible), like you said, it's her dog too and he's proven himself abusive, so the animal would be in danger under his care, should anything ever get that far. Also, him taking that kind of action would only shine the spotlight on himself... which is not something these 'types' want. They work better in the shadows. That said, she might want to file restraining orders, etc., and be more pro-active about her safety (and the dog's) if this move isn't enough to keep her from his grasp because he's that crazy. I'm so glad she has the dog!!

Regardless of his past actions and current threats, she has escaped. Keep in the back of your mind that she likely has PTSD and other traumas to heal from with this experience with this guy, and please make sure she stays far, far away from him (and others like him) forever.


I'm sorry your weekend plans washed out - that's a lot of rain :3 We had some rain here too, but not enough to start refilling the retention ponds, which are quite low ATM. That'll change with more rain, as is usual for the rainy season. I'm just glad the ground could absorb what came down instead of running off and making a mess of things. My garden certainly looks happier after the rain :3

I did not hear about the tornado, but knew they were possible with that line of storms that came through. I hope it wasn't completely horrible for the people in its path.







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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/5 16:57:02 )
@Totalanimefan: I have never had to file that kind of paperwork either but you could always call a lawyer or a women's center to get information at least :3 Hopefully it won't come to that. It sounds like your sister (understandably) has a lot of "unlearning" and decompressing to do after that experience with the ex. I'm really glad she made it to your place, though, and has a space in which to start the process. :3




I've been... busy ... and just generally offline lately, doing other things (as, it seems, are a lot of other people lately)...







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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/6 12:27:03 )
@Totalanimefan: Well, best of luck to her... and to you guys as you all transition through this. :3 It's good she had someplace to go <3


Yeah, I keep getting wrapped up in other things iRL lately and haven't wanted or really been able to just sit down and chat lately. I wonder where everyone else has gone?







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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/8 13:11:32 )
@Totalanimefan: I'd be surprised if the dog wasn't a nervous wreck, actually - that's a big move the poor puppy just went through, and knowing the reason for the move, pup's background was pretty traumatic too (they are quite sensitive to their environments). I would definitely take it easy with Pup and stimuli, and be conscious to transition him to more normal activities and environments over time. It's probably worth it to talk to a vet about anxiety meds and training opportunities for a dog with his background and nervous demeanor. It sounds like this dog is going to need a lot of love, patience, and consistent training... at least for a while, until he feels more secure, maybe grows up a bit (assuming he's still young) and settles down. I'm sorry to hear that your sister got hurt because Pup ran inside before she was ready, but it means that Pup at least feels safe and secure in the house - it was probably overstimulated from your adventures out. Is he a high-energy dog/puppy?

I bet you've been busy with all the recent changes going on iRL for you! I hope it's going well, other than doggie shenanigans! XD







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Donator Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/9 12:26:07 )
-waves-
Good morning.
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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/10 11:21:22 )
@Totalanimefan: so he's highly energetic and wants to herd by instinct and breeding, right? I've never had one of that breed before but understand they can be a handful if their instincts and breeding are not "channeled" properly. It's going to take some time for all of you, I think. But maybe you could find some specific ideas online to help with him?

How's everything else going?

An Embassy tour sounds interesting - I've never done one of them.

Got any plans for this weekend?







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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/10 11:21:47 )
@Koah: Hey you - good morning! How the heck have ya been??






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Donator Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/10 21:50:16 )
@Wildfire: im doing okay. Lol. Same old, same old. Just keepin stupidly busy with work and kids. My downtime has turned into reading stupid fantasies and hangin out with kiddos.
The last two ... No, three weekends, i took the kids out to do new things. The weather is finally warmed up. The snow melted rapidly, to the point of flooding in some areas. It's nice to get out of the valleys.
Some family drama happened, but that's over for now. The niece is stirring the pot again.
Three more weeks and I'll head to Oregon and be home for roughly a month or so. :/

How's life going for you? How's that summer weather? Lol
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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/10 22:03:01 )
@Totalanimefan: it sounds like you need to redirect him somehow... he needs the stimulation, but not of the kind that he has been getting. Training sessions, maybe? Teach him to do frisbee tricks? Play to his bred instincts if you can... and keep in mind his trauma - he needs to heal and feel safe too. (like you need another job, huh? XD ) Good luck, though. <3 You've all had some major changes in recent times - I'm not surprised that you feel like that's all that's going on. That will change with time and patience. And hey - at least you're getting out, right?






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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/10 22:09:49 )
@Koah: Oh no! I'm sorry to hear about the drama with your niece! I hope it hasn't been anything too major. At least you're getting downtime now too - there's nothing wrong with reading and hanging out with the kids! :3 I'm glad you're getting out and enjoying some better weather with the kiddos! <3 Yeah, the weather has been warm here but the humidity hasn't kicked in yet, so it's really nice outside still. Definitely beach weather in central FL! XD <3 I've been too busy/distracted with a gazillion things (it seems) to really take advantage of it though. I really should, while it lasts! I am thinking of making the drive up there to see my Cowboy soon. I've been preoccupied with other, more immediate, things to finalize the dates and plans though. It'll be a 3 day drive, minimum (driving 10hrs+/day). I'll let you know if/when I make it, but right now it's sounding like you're going to be in Oregon :(






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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/16 13:24:34 )
@Totalanimefan: sorry for the delayed reply - I was out of town with no internet access. But I'm back now. :3

I hope things with the pup and your sister are going well! Did you do anything fun this weekend?







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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/17 12:28:04 )
Good morning.

I woke up to really weird, really stupid dreams. It has been a while since I've had dreams so vivid and bizarre... *shakes it off*
ANYWAY, how are you guys doing today? Got anything fun planned, or maybe something interesting scheduled, for the day?

A friend is trying to organize a kayaking trip for tomorrow (I think). I need to re-read the texts/emails again, and if so, dig out the kayaks. She's proposing going down one of the rivers that runs through a state park here. It's fresh water, so that means the river has alligators. I'm not sure I'm particularly keen on that idea, tbh...







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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/17 20:54:59 )
@Totalanimefan: it sounds like you're doing about as much as you can to help the poor Pup adjust! <3 I hope it works and he settles down soon. :3

Ireland? That's fun! I'm a bit jealous, tbh, but I hope your sister has a wonderful time.

... and how are you doing? It seems like you had fun hosting! :3







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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/18 10:48:47 )
good morning.
happy thursday.







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Voltie — He/They Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/20 13:56:21 )
helloooo
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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/21 12:27:35 )
@Totalanimefan: well that's certainly an unusual and interesting thing to do - going to the official opening of a new metro station! XD
A facial sounds like fun. Personally, I'd opt for a massage over a facial, but either one sounds like a lovely opportunity to relax! <3





@nomnomwoobat: Hello! Welcome to Voltra... and to my thread. I've been a little busy recently with offline iRL things, but I'm usually around and willing to chat. How are you enjoying the place so far?







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Voltie — He/They Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/21 13:59:34 )
@Wildfire: Oh hello! I've been pretty bored and doing nothing lately, so I'll probably be on here a lot. And I really like this game so far, it's a really nice and small community but it can get kinda lonely sometimes, so I kinda wish more people knew about Voltra. Besides that, it's pretty great. Hoping to meet some new friends and great people on here. How have you been, besides being busy??
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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/21 14:52:30 )
@nomnomwoobat: ...yeah, it's a small community, and it's very friendly, but it has also been quite a bit more quiet lately than usual. It's not usually this quiet. My guess is that people are out enjoying the weather or something. /shrug/

I'm good, thanks. I've been busy trying to reorganize and declutter the house a bit... and finish up various little projects, etc., that have been sitting for too long. And trying to get back out to the garden, which I've neglected for longer than I should have. Oops. XD

How are you? What kinds of things do you enjoy doing other than running around avatar sites? XD







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Voltie — He/They Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/21 15:23:06 )
@Wildfire: Lol, my garden has been dying out a bit so I need to do that, and my house is always a disaster, so I don't even bother cleaning it anymore. And I'm doing fine, just kinda bored lately.

And lol I'm on like 50 avatar sites, but I also spend most of my time playing video games, especially Elder Scrolls. I love that series so much. I also like to write stories and draw whenever I'm tired of playing games, but I haven't been doing any drawing lately. Don't really do much in general.
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Voltie — He/They Posted 2 years ago ( 2023/05/22 19:11:43 )
@Totalanimefan: Yea it seems like a lot of people are busy. I've been pretty bored myself though, so hopefully this summer I can do a bit more. Also dogs are a lot lol, but they're sometimes cute
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