@Wildfire: At first is wasn't a secret chat, it was meant for a Christmas party planning chat. So the three of us setting up the party to talk without clogging the main chat. But then all the Red stuff happened (trouble maker), so everyone who was fleeing main chat to get away from him. We all ended up in the party chat. Now we use it to bitch about the trouble makers without starting fights.
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@Wildfire: At first is wasn't a secret chat, it was meant for a Christmas party planning chat. So the three of us setting up the party to talk without clogging the main chat. But then all the Red stuff happened (trouble maker), so everyone who was fleeing main chat to get away from him. We all ended up in the party chat. Now we use it to bitch about the trouble makers without starting fights.
@Another Movie Addict: LOL. It sounds like it's purpose has evolved the way it was needed to!!
I'm glad you have an outlet, but sorry that you have to deal with such a personality. Again, it happens, and can be hard to get away from, but still...
I'm glad you have an outlet, but sorry that you have to deal with such a personality. Again, it happens, and can be hard to get away from, but still...
@Wildfire: Maybe some day the admin will finally ban him. The only thing saving him right now is him and the admins are friends.
@Another Movie Addict: Didn't you say the admin finally came around and admitted he was an ass? Or is this a different admin (or set of administrators)??
@Wildfire: Same admin. She's just too nice to do modding properly. Red finally just left on his own because he got tired of being called out for his crap. She never did anything but defend him. And fired every other mod who'd get on to him, of push them to quit. Now the new trouble maker is her 'oldest' friend, and because of that she doesn't do anything when he does stuff.
@Another Movie Addict: you told me about this before. And yeah, you really should have a backbone if you're going to take on a moderator role...
@Wildfire: And the co-owner, her husband, just does not want to mod at all.
@Another Movie Addict: LOL - Oh, I've seen that happen in other arenas before.
@Wildfire: He's a super nice guy though.
@Another Movie Addict: Yeah, I've seen it happen. Some people are just not quite on the same page as their spouse, or they prioritize things a little differently, or something..
@Wildfire: He knows that he can't be mean to anyone, and that he'd rather just be friends with everyone. So he's aware that he's not that great of a mod.
@Another Movie Addict: That's fairly enlightened. It's good that he knows himself so well, and is able to draw that proverbial line in the sand (and not be a mod)
@Wildfire: It's his wife though. Like she has no choice, there's really not anyone better. So it is what it is.
@Another Movie Addict: Yeah, and that can be a sticky place in which to find oneself. Sometimes ya gotta do what ya gotta do!!
@Wildfire: Yep. So mostly we all just do stuff outside of the main chat.
@Another Movie Addict: ALL of you - just to avoid this person? It sounds like one solution, but not the best one, tbh.
@Wildfire: We're not really avoiding her, she's even constantly invited to our in person meets. It's just that we all are in some of the same Discord channels. Like right now a group of us our in a Discord made specifically for our DnD group.
@Another Movie Addict: I mean to avoid him, not her. It sounds like you are a pretty tight-knit group for the most part.
@Wildfire: Yeah basically. When we're not under quarantine we hang out in real life a lot. Even had a pool party planned.
@Another Movie Addict: "when we're not under quarantine" - you say that like it's normal to be under quarantine.
That's so cool that your group is that close, overall
That's so cool that your group is that close, overall
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Having you as a Voltie would be awesome.