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Posted in So, I got some new paints....
Posted 5 years ago
There's something foul about the air here...
Finally getting good art supplies after being miserable with lower-tier supplies is so satisfying. If I hadn't gotten proper watercolors and had stuck with the really godawful set of Grumbacher colors, I would've never chosen to continue using watercolors
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Posted in bf's dad issues still on full blast, idk what to do
Posted 5 years ago
There's something foul about the air here...
I completely understand his fears of losing his family over telling his parents to back off. However, taking a passive approach in an attempt to appease them will not help at all. Situations like this are very difficult, but I believe it's better to cut off his dad and stepmom. I'm sure he can talk to his extended family and talk about the problems he's dealing with to make sure he doesn't lose them.
Allowing the abuse and manipulation is not the right approach for this, his sanity is more important.
I'm not sure how to help with the health insurance issue since I've yet to have to sign up for my own, but hopefully my input will help
Allowing the abuse and manipulation is not the right approach for this, his sanity is more important.
I'm not sure how to help with the health insurance issue since I've yet to have to sign up for my own, but hopefully my input will help
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Posted in Need some input - Irresponsible mother and misbehaving brother
Posted 5 years ago
There's something foul about the air here...
My younger brother went to something I can only describe as a fancy private school that is set in its own sort of "town" that's entire intent is to correct misbehavior in kids, which he has huge issues with. There are houses with a head of the house that's responsible with keeping everyone in line.
My brother had problems with him and eventually came to the idea that he would get moved to a different house if he did something to get kicked out of his current one. He punched the head of the house so hard they were concerned he broke his nose.
My uncle has been involved in the situation, acting as a positive male role model for him. When everything went down, he met with the family that are living in our house and we set up punishments to make sure he actually understands what he did was wrong. Everyone came to agree that for a month or so he is not allowed any technology whatsoever, no phone, no computer, no xbox, not even using the roku in the living room to watch youtube (hulu and netflix are the only okay things he can use).
Now, on to my problem:
My mother hasn't taken up her end of the agreement. She doesn't actually get involved whatsoever in this and isn't actually following through with her responsibilities.
She allows him to get away with misbehaving, and has allowed him to break his punishment. She allowed him to play on his PC, allowed him to use my sister's spare phone to do whatever he wants, and allows him to play on my other uncle's (who's staying with us since he can't find a job nor an apartment during this quarantine) xbox.
My mother gives him inch after inch and he takes mile after mile. He gets physically abusive towards my little sister, threatens me and says I can't do anything about because I'm weaker than him, and breaks things until he gets his way.
Whenever I try to tell her that she needs to actually follow through with his punishment, I have a 33/33/33 chance of her beginning to play on my empathy by crying and saying we're telling her she's a bad mother, saying she doesn't want to "hear it" or telling me that I'm not the mother in the house/an adult (I'm 18, I don't appreciate being talked down to like this) so I have no say in what happens.
She's impossible and I have no idea what to do so I've come here for some input/advice as to what to do in this situation.
My brother had problems with him and eventually came to the idea that he would get moved to a different house if he did something to get kicked out of his current one. He punched the head of the house so hard they were concerned he broke his nose.
My uncle has been involved in the situation, acting as a positive male role model for him. When everything went down, he met with the family that are living in our house and we set up punishments to make sure he actually understands what he did was wrong. Everyone came to agree that for a month or so he is not allowed any technology whatsoever, no phone, no computer, no xbox, not even using the roku in the living room to watch youtube (hulu and netflix are the only okay things he can use).
Now, on to my problem:
My mother hasn't taken up her end of the agreement. She doesn't actually get involved whatsoever in this and isn't actually following through with her responsibilities.
She allows him to get away with misbehaving, and has allowed him to break his punishment. She allowed him to play on his PC, allowed him to use my sister's spare phone to do whatever he wants, and allows him to play on my other uncle's (who's staying with us since he can't find a job nor an apartment during this quarantine) xbox.
My mother gives him inch after inch and he takes mile after mile. He gets physically abusive towards my little sister, threatens me and says I can't do anything about because I'm weaker than him, and breaks things until he gets his way.
Whenever I try to tell her that she needs to actually follow through with his punishment, I have a 33/33/33 chance of her beginning to play on my empathy by crying and saying we're telling her she's a bad mother, saying she doesn't want to "hear it" or telling me that I'm not the mother in the house/an adult (I'm 18, I don't appreciate being talked down to like this) so I have no say in what happens.
She's impossible and I have no idea what to do so I've come here for some input/advice as to what to do in this situation.
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Posted in April Crate Items Feedback Thread || Raffle Included!
Posted 5 years ago
There's something foul about the air here...
Bearly Cute
★★★✩✩
This one is super cute, I really like the dress, the little bears on the ground (look at how sassy the standing one is!), basically everything other than the hat and the gloves. I'm not entirely sure what's off about the hat, but the gloves are too big and the glove on the right hand is placed a little too high so it looks like the lining is cutting through the arm
Some Bunny to Love
★★★★✩
Also really cute. I love having some more ears, and these ones are a lot more unique with the gradients. My problem only lies in the hair that makes the face look off. It looks like the hair was drawn for a front view rather than the Volt model's 3/4 view. The left pigtail is behind the head, but the right one looks like it's placed a lot closer to the face, the little stray hairs on the right side side of the face cover too much of the cheek, and the parting of the hair is too straight on
★★★✩✩
This one is super cute, I really like the dress, the little bears on the ground (look at how sassy the standing one is!), basically everything other than the hat and the gloves. I'm not entirely sure what's off about the hat, but the gloves are too big and the glove on the right hand is placed a little too high so it looks like the lining is cutting through the arm
Some Bunny to Love
★★★★✩
Also really cute. I love having some more ears, and these ones are a lot more unique with the gradients. My problem only lies in the hair that makes the face look off. It looks like the hair was drawn for a front view rather than the Volt model's 3/4 view. The left pigtail is behind the head, but the right one looks like it's placed a lot closer to the face, the little stray hairs on the right side side of the face cover too much of the cheek, and the parting of the hair is too straight on
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Posted in Voltra's Runway | Fallin' for Autumn | ENTER BY NOV 25TH
Posted 5 years ago
A webcomic theme would be really cool sometime soon!
Posted in [LOUD SCREECHING]
Posted 5 years ago
I drink flax milk, no one else seems to want it so it's easy to get my hands on lol
Posted in Post the items your ava is currently wearing
Posted 5 years ago
A Pale Horse Named Death/Plague Doctor
Base (Coal)
Will's Hair (Coal)
Elegant Dress (Coal)
Arm Bandages (Coal)
Will's Cane (Coal)
Purse (Coal)
House Cape (Coal)
Multi Necklace (Storm)
Coal Tophat (Coal)
Vermilion Shawl (Coal)
Pet Crow (Coal)
Virgil's Glasses
Year of the Horse Companion
Year of the Rooster Mask
Will's Hair (Coal)
Elegant Dress (Coal)
Arm Bandages (Coal)
Will's Cane (Coal)
Purse (Coal)
House Cape (Coal)
Multi Necklace (Storm)
Coal Tophat (Coal)
Vermilion Shawl (Coal)
Pet Crow (Coal)
Virgil's Glasses
Year of the Horse Companion
Year of the Rooster Mask
Posted in I've Got a Wedding to Plan! - Selling Everything
Posted 5 years ago
Can I get a Feline Fatale for 2.5k?
(I'm working on the sketches right now, I'm almost done with the 1st one)
(I'm working on the sketches right now, I'm almost done with the 1st one)
Posted in Reminder to drink water today!
Posted 5 years ago
@Lucifera: Ahhh, the refreshing taste of lead
Posted in Reminder to drink water today!
Posted 5 years ago
Get some of dat wadough and drink up folks!
Posted in Earrings?
Posted 5 years ago
+1 on Etsy. Always support a hardworking independent creator :)
Posted in Its my birthday~
Posted 5 years ago
Happy birthday! Having that much work on your birthday really sucks but it could be worse. Treat yourself at some point today, maybe with some order-out from your favourite restaurant if it's available?
Posted in More time to laugh
Posted 5 years ago
This is just our cat when we started feeding him slightly less so he would lose some weight lol
Posted in Newcomer supply depot
Posted 5 years ago
@vengeance: Hi :)
Does anyone by chance know how to check when you created your account?
Does anyone by chance know how to check when you created your account?