Melite's posts

Posted in [S] OLD DONATION ITEMS [B] MANY ITEMS! COME! * NEW RIG ITEMS ADDED* Posted 7 years ago

:bernard_happy: how is everyone doing? I like this event lot - though my lurking wont' get me far

Posted in [S] OLD DONATION ITEMS [B] MANY ITEMS! COME! * NEW RIG ITEMS ADDED* Posted 7 years ago

mind if I sneak in? I can't stay around for long but I'd love to chat a bit

Posted in Children? Posted 7 years ago

As I grew older in my 20s I had no intention of ever having children. I didn't want to bring them into this cruel world. When I met my husband in my late 20s my perspective changed completely. We agreed on so many things and the idea of children with him was a dream come true. We have 2 children now and are working on #3 (hopefully we are lucky enough to be blessed with a 3rd). I couldn't imagine my life without them in it. I'm not even sure who I would be without them at this point.

I have a few friends that have absolutely no interest in children, have already fixed themselves to not allow it to happen ever. One of them is made physically ill by being around children for any extended period (longer than a few hours). He bears no ill will towards me for having or loving my children, and I none towards him for not wanting children at all. I won't tell people their minds will change, for some it never will. I personally believe many of the people who are young and believe they don't want children, will change in time as they themselves change and grow.

Posted in The not so coordinated Posted 7 years ago

burnt I didn't even know you were here

<-- Meli

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

I have to go to bed :vanora_tired: :vanora_tired: so late now

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

@Panda: heresy!!

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

we really did it, and it was so fast!! :vanora_heart:

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

whoop! Instinct is pretty great too

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

Totalanimefan:

Melite:

Totalanimefan:

@Panda: You used to live in the Bay Area? And yeah that's where I live now.

My husband grew up in the Bay Area - I think Salinas?

I don't know where that is sorry. I just moved here two years ago.

I'm not sure either - I just let him drive while we're there LOL It's near Monterey Bay that's all I really know.
@dragoness129: That's so rough! We have quite a few gyms here but it's nothing compared to some of the bigger cities which are just insane

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

Totalanimefan:
@Melite: Yeah I used those too. I'm level 36 as well. I can't believe that your hubby is 40! I'm going to be there someday.What team are you guys?

Forgot that part! ha we are on Mystic

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

Panda:
@Melite: Oh lol XD What do they called Asian people....I can't remember.
Oriental! XD

Yes - I couldn't remember either for some reason! :vanora_xd: just humans with different foods

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

Totalanimefan:

@Panda: You used to live in the Bay Area? And yeah that's where I live now.

My husband grew up in the Bay Area - I think Salinas?

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

@Totalanimefan: My husband hit 40 (finally) I'm only like 36 I think - took advantage of the boosts after the fest in Chicago to level up really fast

Posted in Velvet's Design Boutique [Autumn Block Party] Posted 7 years ago

I don't think we have any Asian supermarkets! I know there's like 1 aisle dedicated to "ethnic" foods or something like that - not sure what they call it specifically