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Posted in What’s Your Fursona? Posted 5 years ago

"My fursona maybe a weasel. Though I love wolves and other animals, but my boyfriend calls me weasel and it sticks for me."


Posted in Short stories and Drawings (giveaways) Posted 5 years ago

"I will post a short story on here tomorrow night as well. :) "


Posted in Being an Atheist is a struggle Posted 5 years ago

"I am an Atheist and many none Atheist don't seem to grasp what it is to be an Atheist. It is a title and there is no indoctrination or religion involved. Everyone is an individual within the community. Everyone has a different view of what it is to be an Atheist. I for one believe in Humanism and the Human spirit, in more of a metaphorical view. I don't rule out the possibility of spirits, i just rule out the possibility of a god. I am skeptical. Its also hard considering many don't want us to have a voice. It is almost an instant eye roll when I say I am an atheist, the automatically assume I am a demon child, even those that are not really religious. Also, the fear of people finding out and maybe coming after me, especially me being a Pansexual. I don't have it worse compared to many others who suffer from racism and bigotry. I really acknowledge that, but I still fear, especially with this presidency. I have seen friends of mine get beaten up more for being transgender or Atheist or anything outside white christian mentality. What is your thoughts?"


Posted in Short stories and Drawings (giveaways) Posted 5 years ago

"I am late on the game do to some issues, but I am going to try and obtain some lanterns! I really want to be involved me. So, lets talk and explore anything. I have giveaways which our July crates. I have five. To get one crate, please submit an original drawing or short story! :) or even both. Be creative as much as you can. :) This is for fun and not everyone will win, but its all fun. I will announce the winners on Saturday evening. Good luck!"


Posted in Going to Williamsburg, VA Posted 5 years ago

"Thanks guys! On the road now and going to all three. Spending four days, three nights. In the car and in Maryland now. I live in New Jersey. "


Posted in Grief + Hospice Posted 5 years ago

"@Lithium: I am so sorry. My boyfriend is going through a similar thing with his father. He will go into hospice soon from home. It has been difficult because he isn't like he use to be, but that is understandable. In a way, you can see he wants his father not to suffer any more, but at the same time he wants him to live. It is difficult and sad. I am so sorry you are going through this."


Posted in Going to Williamsburg, VA Posted 5 years ago

"Yep, for a few days for vacation. Anyone from the area? And does anyone play Pokemon Go? Wonder if there is some good Pokemon there. :D and Pokestops. lol.... I am pretty excited to go. "



"@Millet: No idea. lol.... The information the guy gave me online was conservative and a police website. It is really ridiculous to be honest. We all know there is an influx of murders with transgenders and we all know transgender are in the minority. I just don't get what was being claimed in the argument I had. It was really do to my comment about transgenders of color being the biggest victim. "



"@Dragonus Luciferius: Awe thank you!

Luckily it ended or else I may have been banned on the site lol"



"This defiantly may get some people's attention but hell, it's meant too. So, I am in a debate with someone about Taylor Swifts new song, but the story of being transgender came up from a bisexual male (I assuming),who is claiming being transgender is safe based on statistics. UGH.... I hate when people use statistics as a key point on people's lives without any disregard of the fact it is not safer. The rise of transgender's being killed is happening and the violence rate is high. Even in the community it is dangerous to be trans, with terfs and gay men even discrediting them. I am pansexual and dated transgenders,I have known what they go through daily from seeing it first hand. I hate that my opinion is invalid because i have anecdotal evidence. Ugh, well that combined with statistics, context and facts all lead to the truth. Statistics is one factor but isn't the entire objective of what is going on. I can say statistically people of color get arrested more, but the context of why that happens also needs to be talked about. It is really just disgusting how people within the community have no bearing of what is really going on. Also, I believe he maybe young and has no knowledge of what is really happening, especially world wide. What is your opinion of the transgender community and the crimes that have been happening?"


Posted in 2 Guys: What? Posted 6 years ago

"Thanks everyone for the responses!

To be clear, I am not emotionally or physically cheating on my boyfriend because I love him way to much to do that. Even though a small part of me wants to break down and cry to the one guy friend and tell him how stressed I am, I am not going too. We mainly talk about things my boyfriend is not into like Pokemon and Anime.... He knows NOT to go for anything further then that. Its some what nice to have a friend to talk about things other then family and work situations.

My boyfriend and I are struggling with seeing each other because of his dad's problems right now. His dad is sadly on his death bed and its hard to say when it will all go down. :( It is very depressing and it is one reason I will not give up on the relationship. What will be straining is the future a head with my boyfriend. When his father does pass, his left with heavy responsibility to his mother for caring for the home, paying the taxes etc.... This can dwindle our chances in a house of our own and even having kids one day together. I do have a son, but I know he would like another child. On the other hand, my guy friend has his life together and a better prospect with everything and we have more common. I am not in love with him or even have those strong feelings like I did, but I can see myself in the future have that possibility again.

However, even though I said I may have a possibility of having those feeling for the other guy, as of now I don't really want too. I love my boyfriend a lot more and feel a connection with him that's deep. I just thing this situation and the future will be difficult. It actually scares me.
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Posted in 2 Guys: What? Posted 6 years ago
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"I been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend for one year. Its been a struggle, not because of us but because of situations that we both fell into, especially my boyfriend whose father is sadly very ill. With that said, it is a true struggle. Now, someone else messaged me who I met before my boyfriend. We were on the brink of dating when his children's mother (who he was getting a divorce from) wanted to make it work. He didn't seem like he wanted too but for his kids he tried. I tried waiting but I could not wait much longer and in the process I met my now boyfriend. I love him dearly! Now, I am torn because the other man came back in my life saying how he regrets everything and that he wants to wait for me now. It has brought back some of those instant emotional ties I had and I realized I am torn. I love my current boyfriend but I feel at this moment it can not go further.... And with the other guy, it can and probably will. At the same time, I feel living my current boyfriend right now would be a huge mistake because I love him to death. It's difficult but no, I will not cheat. They both know this. Its hard for me emotionally. What would you do in this situation?"


Posted in Thank you everyone! Posted 6 years ago

"@Tuijp: lol....So true! And yes please! Thank you!"


Posted in Thank you everyone! Posted 6 years ago

"@bum: Thank you will send trade!"