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Posted in laboratory Posted 7 years ago

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Posted in Questing Strawberry, and Tootsie Posted 7 years ago

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Good luck on your quest!
I like how you have it broken down by colors instead of items.
Are those your favorite colors?

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Posted in Searching for Partners Posted 7 years ago

I haven't RP'ed in years, literally years.
But I'm actually feeling like giving it a try again even after all this time, I enjoyed it back in the day.
I can't guarantee that I'll be able to get online every day but I won't just drop the RP without talking to you about it.


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Posted in When you've lurked too long... Posted 7 years ago
@Q t e a p o n: Probably a lot of it stemmed from RL getting in the way of my online activity and when I came back, a lot of the friends I had made had moved on to other sites or just become busy with RL as well. I found it harder to become active again on (any) site when the people I was already comfortable with weren't there. It felt harder to just hop into a random thread and start talking to someone new.


"Elithiya":
I also feel like I have a hard time making connections with people anymore.

@Elithiya I feel that on a spiritual level, I do. I don't remember it being that way, in the beginning it seemed to come easy when I first came on to a community. I think the longer I lurked and the longer I felt like I was being ignored when I did try branching out, it fed into that thought that maybe it was just me.

Having a regular place to go and talk is really helpful, I used to just frequent the quest threads or hangouts of the people I knew and stayed there.
@Lithinel: All of the colors, if that would be okay. Just lemme hop onto my computer to get the total and send the trade.
Thank you very much!
Posted in Confessions (Make a Confession) Posted 7 years ago
I've gotten to the point in life where I think it's actually impossible for me to make any sort of friends. I have some work acquaintances, they say we are friends, and yet I see them hanging out with each other but never inviting me. I know that me having a husband and child can sometimes create issues with creating plans but really it wouldn't be hard to just say "Hey, you wanna do something?" and me having the chance to say Yes or No. Most of the time I'm sitting at home with my son, trying to find something to occupy my time between the household chores.
I know I'm not the most funny person, or the easiest to get along with, or the most fun to be around.... but then don't tell me to my face that we are friends if you never make the effort to be a friend.