Tomyum's posts
Posted in i am beginning to hate myself
Posted 5 years ago
@kegs: It's obvious. You are repulsed because you are systematically planning everything out. What romance is there planning a date with a stranger and meeting knowing they probably want you and that is all there is? You want romance! You want something that is spontaneous and not all planned out and rote. You don't like them because they aren't fun.
What was that old song? Girls just want to have fun? You need to figure out your own mind and follow the clues. Most dudes aren't fun. You keep meeting them like it is a chore. Why do you put up with that?
What was that old song? Girls just want to have fun? You need to figure out your own mind and follow the clues. Most dudes aren't fun. You keep meeting them like it is a chore. Why do you put up with that?
Posted in i am beginning to hate myself
Posted 5 years ago
@kegs: You are not alone. The more choices you have the pickier you get. That is how we are built! The big problem is that this all takes time and you waste all of your time on it.
There are a lot of online dating studies done. Women go after 20% of men and mostly ignore 80% of them. But almost all men will message anyone they consider attractive enough. This means 20% of guys are getting all of the attention and have an abundance of choice, while 80% have almost no choice. Meanwhile women have too much choice across the board and will end up meeting men who also have too much choice. This means everyone will just keep picking from their endless list and only anyone who is either perfect or too fed up of the game will settle. Online dating encourages predatory behavior because these men will always have a "next date" and will act out because it doesn't matter. Okay maybe not all of them but many do!
More people than ever are not having sex. It's true! Look up the Millennial sex gap. We are killing ourselves and it isn't your fault. It is the fault of us having too much to pick and being simple human brains.
There are a lot of online dating studies done. Women go after 20% of men and mostly ignore 80% of them. But almost all men will message anyone they consider attractive enough. This means 20% of guys are getting all of the attention and have an abundance of choice, while 80% have almost no choice. Meanwhile women have too much choice across the board and will end up meeting men who also have too much choice. This means everyone will just keep picking from their endless list and only anyone who is either perfect or too fed up of the game will settle. Online dating encourages predatory behavior because these men will always have a "next date" and will act out because it doesn't matter. Okay maybe not all of them but many do!
More people than ever are not having sex. It's true! Look up the Millennial sex gap. We are killing ourselves and it isn't your fault. It is the fault of us having too much to pick and being simple human brains.
Posted in talking is tiring
Posted 5 years ago
This place is like anxiety central. All aboard!
Posted in i am beginning to hate myself
Posted 5 years ago
Read about the paradox of choice. I think we do not understand what is in front of us. It is easy to be in the moment but you need to look at the big picture and appreciate the time we have.
Posted in How many Candy Canes do you have? :F
Posted 5 years ago
Eleven!
Posted in A Dutch guy build a Rollercoaster in RCT2
Posted 5 years ago
That is super cool! I used to love that game.
Posted in A Dutch guy build a Rollercoaster in RCT2
Posted 5 years ago
Do you have a link to it?
Posted in Unicorn’s Birthday Bash Hangout
Posted 5 years ago
Hi I hope you have fun!
Posted in Wild west scenes in my hometown
Posted 5 years ago
Wow that is crazy. Are you in a big city?
Posted in Picutres of my room
Posted 5 years ago
I love the BEBOP poster!
Posted in How many Candy Canes do you have? :F
Posted 5 years ago
I have three but I do not get any time to post!
Posted in sh*tty holiday support thread
Posted 5 years ago
Thank you so much for linking the hotlines! I think it is very important people know there is help available.
My holiday was not very good but I know I have friends who are there for me. I may not have a lot but at least I know someone loves me. I think someone loves you too!
My holiday was not very good but I know I have friends who are there for me. I may not have a lot but at least I know someone loves me. I think someone loves you too!
Posted in voltraonline
Posted 5 years ago
Someone told me that Voltra used to be voltraonline.com but then a hacker took it over. Why hasn't voltra got the account back?
I saw online that the owner is pantheononlineofficial@gmail.com? Is that true? When I look it up on Godaddy it says that is the email.
I think Voltra should be voltraonline because the .us domain is blocked at my work. I think maybe I should not be on at work but that is where I have time!
I saw online that the owner is pantheononlineofficial@gmail.com? Is that true? When I look it up on Godaddy it says that is the email.
I think Voltra should be voltraonline because the .us domain is blocked at my work. I think maybe I should not be on at work but that is where I have time!
Posted in There is now almost a stabbing incident each day in our country
Posted 5 years ago
Where I am in the US nearly all murders are gang related. It is very safe in the United States as long as you don't get involved with crime. Stabbings happen too but you do not hear about them as much because guns are much more reported. I know knife crime is very bad in parts of Europe and in London it is very high. They also have acid attacks in London as well, particularly the muslim areas! Very scary!
I have never been near a shooting but the news reports all the time in the bad areas of town.
I have never been near a shooting but the news reports all the time in the bad areas of town.