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What I want to know is why does everybody love Raymond?
Posted in Gardening Posted 5 years ago
I have bees. I don't really "keep" them but I keep them you know?
Posted in Sometimes Meh is Just Fine Posted 5 years ago
You can be happy if you just make your expectations match reality. We all forget how to just live. The Quarantine is great so everyone can remember what is important instead of being drained every day.
Posted in I am alone now. Posted 5 years ago
Wow sorry to hear that! Welcome to the club. I will get you a member id.
Posted in New to the site Posted 5 years ago
Welcome Stay inside and save often.
Posted in Edit* You're not trying hard enough Posted 5 years ago
A lot of people really do not try at all. It is very frustrating for them just as much as for you.
Posted in Volts Posted 5 years ago
Actions speak louder than words! I wonder this a lot too.
Posted in Hi! :) Posted 5 years ago
I miss Sapherna. I miss Crys.
Posted in Trump criticizes Parasite win Posted 5 years ago
He likes to hear himself talk. I guess that is why he is so popular.
Posted in LGBT dating life is hard Posted 5 years ago
You should read about the paradox of choice. We have more choice than ever now with apps and such but that makes us even less likely to find someone.
Posted in Hello, I'm new! Posted 5 years ago
Is that name from Undertale? Great game!
Posted in Complete madness Posted 5 years ago
How big are the bombs? That is nuts. Any idea where they are from?
Posted in I need advice for current relationship Posted 5 years ago
@UmberMouse: It doesn't sound like they want to be loyal to one person. If that is the life they want to live you need to either take it or leave it.

Every poly relationship I have seen has ended with people being left behind as they get older and being alone. It looks super miserable. It is fun when you are young and can pick people up but you don't stay young forever!

You deserve to demand someone be there for you and only you! If you can't get that here you need to find it somewhere else. What are you going to do when you are old?
Posted in I need advice for current relationship Posted 5 years ago
What do you want? Do you want to dedicate yourself to someone who can also dedicate themselves to you? Do you want a trusting relationship with a stable future? Or do you want adventure, excitement, and meeting new people all the time to have romance with?

I don't like the idea that people can be picked up and put down like that. It leaves no stability. It breeds jealousy. It doesn't leave anything long term to build. If you want to do that you are free to. But it comes at a cost!

What do you want?