Also write down every time they come over so she can feed her kid
I said that, but I understand why the case worker is oblivious. She's just there to make sure the toddler is progressing mentally. Granted he's massively delayed.
Actually a year ago I told the toddler's aunt, Cousin 2, that if they can't start having enough food in their home I was going to report them.
Well as messed up as this sounds, let's hope he fails this test because perhaps that'll enlighten her.
True.
I'm hoping that those teachers realize they need to contact DCF, that way there'll be multiple reports from different people. I doubt he'll pass though.
From what you've described I as well doubt he'll pass but this could also be a blessing because perhaps the caseworker AND the teachers will see how horribly stimulated he's been.
And if by some miracle child services do take action I hope they can make some kind of reservation for the rights to the unborn child.
He's 3 and still uses diapers, because he won't get up to tell people he has to go. That tells me he's learned to not bother. He'll hit you to get his way, which that learned behavior worries me the most. He's not talking as much or as well as he should be. Just. There's so much about this that weighs in on me, and he's not my child.
There being two really concerns me. Cousin 2 lives with them, as does Cousin 3 (all three sibs live together in a two room home plus baby daddy). She told me once that baby daddy whenever he gets paid spends all his money on like hot pockets and delivery pizza. He'll get two larges, take one whole large and half of the second one for himself and leaves like five slices for the others to share.
My cousin once came over here to beg for my ramen because they literally had nothing else for the toddler to eat.
That's the one with the massive moobs who walks around shirtless all the time.
"He's 3 and still uses diapers, because he won't get up to tell people he has to go. That tells me he's learned to not bother. He'll hit you to get his way, which that learned behavior worries me the most. He's not talking as much or as well as he should be. Just. There's so much about this that weighs in on me, and he's not my child.
There being two really concerns me. Cousin 2 lives with them, as does Cousin 3 (all three sibs live together in a two room home plus baby daddy). She told me once that baby daddy whenever he gets paid spends all his money on like hot pockets and delivery pizza. He'll get two larges, take one whole large and half of the second one for himself and leaves like five slices for the others to share. "
This right here is the perfect statement to make to CPS.
My cousin is why I understand the argument for forced sterilization.
Indeed
It makes me so deeply angry that no one in my family understands why doing nothing is wrong.
It bothers me as well that they could be so blind. I almost wonder if they're in on it.
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Having you as a Voltie would be awesome.