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Posted in This Guy: My Ex is Draining Posted 5 years ago



Honestly that's what I should do.
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Always a fun thing to do.
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S'up Veng.
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I've already eaten. Lol I'm allowed to eat in my room. Never really go out to eat during weekdays, that's a Sunday thing.
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Finally went and made myself a sandwich.
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@Lina: Bi-polar, so yeah I get the 'meh not right now' feeling towards eating. Mostly the options are limited, and I don't want something that'll cause too many dishes to wash.
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@Lina: I still haven't even gotten up to go get something.
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@Wildfire: I'm good. And I hope you can get your stuff done.
Posted in This Guy: My Ex is Draining Posted 5 years ago



@Priestess of Pie: At this point in my life, I don't really care about maintaining the friendship. It's insanely toxic for me, and I'm aware of that. It's that I don't want to be the one that pushes him to suicide. Which he's threatened a few times. So usually I just do the cowardly thing and just ignore him.
Posted in This Guy: My Ex is Draining Posted 5 years ago



@Priestess of Pie: He's been doing this since we became friends in high school. Which was almost two decades ago. Every single time he needed someone, he came to me.
Posted in This Guy: My Ex is Draining Posted 5 years ago



@Priestess of Pie: He really needs help, but won't ever go and get it.
Posted in This Guy: My Ex is Draining Posted 5 years ago



-Insert a long string of bad words in a frustrated voice-

Okay so I know that in the end, this could be put an end to pretty easily. Like logically I get it, I could stop this. But there's a part of me deep down in my soul knows she doesn't want to go off on him. Basically I don't want to be the thing that makes him snap. Plus it's just really really hard to pull away from an almost 20 year old toxic habit.

Ok so he hasn't spoken to me much in like over a year. Ghosted me completely. And now all of a sudden my ex is back with 'I feel alone'.

My reply was: "I think you want so much out of normal people, and when they can't reach the level you set for them. You just pull away.
You're so caught up in this idea of a perfect relationship with the exact perfect person. And that's just not healthy or realistic."

His reply: "I'm not looking for a therapist I'm looking for a friend"

If I had the lady balls to do it, all I have to do is tell him to fudge off. But like I don't have the lady balls to do that. So I'm stuck forever bitching about this butt pimple. Which I know isn't even remotely healthy. I just need to lance this pimple.
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Things are alright. Trying to decide how much effort I want to put into making something to eat.
Posted in After the event hangout Posted 5 years ago



@Wildfire: Meh disappearing happens.