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love the blackjack game! I didn’t even know how to play until just now lol

omg these two c`:

@vanora: i vote for the decaying door

Posted in Lost In A Dream|Come Hangout+Freebs Posted 3 years ago

@moodyb: well just know you’re not alone! I struggled silently with adhd for so long, i felt like there was something wrong with me. everyone around me was like “uh, why can’t you just *do* it” but… everything was hard for me. even “simple” things. but not that I’m diagnosed, and I know and my family knows and my friends know, everyone’s easier on me. Including myself! It just takes people like us extra time. Or when we do things, we do it a different way than most. And when we have our peers’ support and patience, it makes it so much easier!

I definitely don’t think you have to tell everyone… cuz you’re right, not everyone will be supportive or understanding. But it helps just to have enough people in our court backing us up. Enough meaning one or two important people.

And adhd generally goes undiagnosed in females since it doesn’t present itself super obvious like it does in most boys. I have an inattentive type of adhd. So it’s like an “invisible illness”. I’ve since discovered ways to live with it and work with it, so I promise it will get easier :)

Aw, cats are so good for emotional healing… animals just… ugh they’re the best. They just get us. Without even being able to communicate with us! Amazing :’)

Posted in What do your keys unlock? Posted 3 years ago

@anarchist beauty: okay I dropped it but you knew where it was going… that was good. ayooo teamwork lol

hopefully vreg won’t use it to unlock pennywise

@vioxeri: 😊<3

Posted in Lost In A Dream|Come Hangout+Freebs Posted 3 years ago

@moodyb: i feel like we have a similar diagnosis. im the same way, and i TOTALLY understand how a new desk can help, lol
and that’s super nice that you have a supportive sister! i’m lucky my mom and sister were always supportive of me, my dad however, wasn’t for a while. he was upset when i went on meds. just because he didn’t understand. because of his upbringing, he doesn’t really understand mental illnesses or mental handicaps. years later though, he came to me and apologized saying that he’s glad i took meds and went to therapy because he could see how it helped me in the long run. hopefully one day your dad will come around too :)

I also have a goal to get a kitty. I want one so bad, especially since I miss my family cat so much. But I want to get in a better place financially and mentally (even physically) before I take on the responsibility of a little fluff ball.

Posted in What do your keys unlock? Posted 3 years ago

@anarchist beauty: ha! if only it were that easy!
(fumbles with my key and drops it through the sewer grates)
dang..

@vioxeri: this key unlocks all my secrets… it’s from the Violets item!

Posted in What do your keys unlock? Posted 3 years ago

@anarchist beauty:
uh oh that means i need to keep on my game lol !
*smears on war paint*

Posted in Lost In A Dream|Come Hangout+Freebs Posted 3 years ago

@moodyb: i am the same way with my adhd! when i take my medication i start organizing anything and everything.
i'm off the meds now, for reasons. but back when i was on it, i used to nanny for a couple families and oh boy.
those families loved me. all the dishes done, laundry, mail, etc. but the kids... LOL
this one little boy got so fed up with me because i wouldn't let him play with his legos because i had just organized them all by color and size.
that's the day i realized my dosage might be a little too high, lmao.


*rolls*
Posted in Lost In A Dream|Come Hangout+Freebs Posted 3 years ago

@moodyb: the poinsettia is that one christmas flower with red petals, which apparently are actually just leaves.
i guess the leaves turn red if you keep it in the dark for a while?? i actually have no clue i just buy them cuz xmas.

and omg. same. my apartment is off the main road, and we get so. much. dust.
not just dust but like... black dust from car tires. ugh i hate it, i have to sweep all the damn time!
well, i know i should but i don't do it often enough....

as for organizing, i actually like doing that. sometimes. if i'm in the mood, lol.

Posted in Lost In A Dream|Come Hangout+Freebs Posted 3 years ago

@moodyb: ope! can't wait to see it come together eventually!
i'll share pictures of mine if i ever get the funds to buy new stuff as well.
today i added a little poinsettia plant to my desk... tryna be *festive* lol

Posted in Perfect Pumpkins: Art/Colouring Contest Posted 3 years ago

@poetictorment: well bravo, and i think Treat's gonna really like this one, lol
Posted in What do your keys unlock? Posted 3 years ago

@anarchist beauty:
LOL i somehow had to top a key that unlocks a middle finger for people who force
their own feelings of marriage onto others. that's pretty badass.


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