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Posted in Safe Space Hangout Posted 5 years ago
@eerie: yes exactly
Plus I’ve been so busy lately, I’m not online or drawing as much as I’d like to be
So I feel like I’m failing Fuzzlehaven
@LupaPrinceRomulus: things will get better over time
You’re already chatting a lot!
And getting replies, so that’s amazing
Posted in Safe Space Hangout Posted 5 years ago
@eerie: it’s hard not to feel pressured to draw sometimes though.
I really want this to be successful, so I get worried I’m not doing enough.
Posted in After the event hangout Posted 5 years ago
I know older generations were raised differently, but sometimes I still get annoyed at them. >.<
Just... I’ve told my grandma so many times that I don’t want kids

I know, I just need to be patient and accept people for who they are
Posted in After the event hangout Posted 5 years ago
Yes, exactly! My sister wants children but can’t afford to have any.
She and her husband make just barely enough to live, just the 2 of them.
And I agree that babies should be planned for and budgeted for.

I feel like I made it clear I don’t want kids, but my grandma and other older relatives still have these thoughts that woman just get married and have kids.
It makes me wonder how many of them didn’t actually want kids, but had them anyway.
Posted in Supernatural Cafe (Humans welcome) Posted 5 years ago
@Unicorn: oh, I’m sorry to hear that.
I’ve lost a lot of beloved pets in my life as well. I hate that they don’t live 100 years with me
Posted in After the event hangout Posted 5 years ago
Older people are always like, you don’t like children? But you’re female!
Posted in After the event hangout Posted 5 years ago
lol, I’m not really a kid person.
Posted in After the event hangout Posted 5 years ago
lol

The well behaved ones can stay.
Just at a distance...
Posted in After the event hangout Posted 5 years ago
Okay, the kids are cute. They can stay.
But the teens who just make a mess, they’re out!
@PurpdaBurpPurp: I understand completely.
I usually hide from problems and pretend they aren’t happening.
But I’ve had a lot of help online. Talking to other people about it, makes it easier to accept I have it.

Admitteding is always hard, but once you do everything gets a little easier. And anxiety can get worse if you ignore it, so it’s good you are taking steps. ^^
Posted in After the event hangout Posted 5 years ago
I know! How dare they expect me to work at work!
Posted in After the event hangout Posted 5 years ago
There are customers and I’m having to do things and work.
What none sense >:3