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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 18:55:07 )



No it's not. That friendship was heavily strained by our personalities growing in different directions.
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Donator — She/Crazy Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 18:55:43 )


Kozi - pffft. Who cares what others think. You be you.

AMA - Better to be out of it then/ -hugs-


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Donator — Fluffywuff Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 18:56:30 )

@Another Movie Addict: Sometimes, people just grow apart naturally.
Perhaps you simply matured faster than than she did.
That happens a lot, since people grow in life at different rates.

@dragoness129: Thank youuuu

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Donator — She/Crazy Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 18:57:43 )


You are very welcome! ^_^


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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 18:58:04 )



It's been at least 8 years since that friendship ended. I've got a lot much better friends since then.

Mostly our friendship had issues with my going more towards counter culture. A strong interest in the LGBTQ community, and stuff like that.
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Donator — She/Crazy Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 18:59:34 )


I am too much fangirl squealing over Vyctor. Probably would hurt his eardrums and drive him away if he knew just how obsessive I was.
Keeping it kinda on the down low though. He won't know the darkness.

AMA - Much better friends is much good. ^_^
Better to find more open minded people.


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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:00:44 )



Oh yeah, lol my new friends are like all furries. Who knew my most healthy friendships would be because of them. XD
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Donator — She/Crazy Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:02:09 )


Random chances of life. ^_^ ♥
Nothing wrong with that at all.


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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:04:32 )



Oh gods meeting these people is the best story though. I had gone to a local convention with an ex of mine, we were broken up for two years when this happened. He got up extra early for him so that I could go to the furry panel. He wasn't planning on staying and wanted to go to another panel. But there was another one of his exes in there. So he didn't want her to see him, which made him stuck for an hour in a furry panel. My ex finally got the balls to go say hi to his other ex. So I bounce up behind him and say in the most delighted voice ever. 'Hi I'm the other ex'.
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Donator — She/Crazy Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:05:47 )


Eeee, sounds super cute. ^_^
And great introduction, I say.


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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:06:59 )



So thank goodness for my ex I guess.
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Donator — She/Crazy Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:09:23 )


Yeah!
I am still friends with my first boyfriend. Though, he didn't tell me at the time he was gay, cause he was trying to not be.


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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:11:24 )



My ex and I had been friends for 10ish years before we started dating, so it was easy to switch back to just being friends. Two or three years ago he started ghosting me, and is completely out of my life now.
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Donator — She/Crazy Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:13:49 )


It's good when things can easily go back to before.
Sad that he started to ghost you.
It happens with age though and moving to away states, loose contact with friends from high school and such. I still have my hs friends on FB, but I don't initiate any chatting, nor do they. We've just ... grown apart.


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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:15:04 )



No, he ghosted me because his new girlfriend didn't want him talking to his exes. Lol I still hear about him from time to time too. Because I'm friends with one of his coworkers. He was the last of my high school friends.
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Donator — She/Crazy Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:16:21 )


Ah. I've seen that before too. One of my husband's friend's wife did that with him, like no contact with other friends strict.
Life is odd sometimes.


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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:18:04 )



People are just weird really. Oh well. I don't really need him anymore, I've definitely outgrown that friendship. All my high school friends had a level of toxicity to them. We were all a little too close to each other, and their behavior never really matured. Whereas I was exploring new and different things.
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Donator — She/Crazy Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:19:08 )


People do grow up at different times than others.
As long as you have good people in your life now, that's all that matters.


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Donator — Fluffywuff Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:20:10 )

I had that happen too.
I only dated this one ex for about a month, since it turns out we make much better friends than a couple.
but then he got married to someone super jealous, and I haven't talked to him since. :/
I'm like GIRL WE DATED FOR A MONTH. IN LIKE 1999. XDD;;;

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Oh my love, I know you are my candyman
And oh my love, let us fly to bounty land~~


Közi (“Kouji.”)
He/him


Donator — 0% Edible Posted 5 years ago ( 2020/04/16 19:21:39 )



I kind of understand when his new girlfriends don't what him talking specifically to me. Him and I both act super close almost like we might date again. What those girls never understood was that him and I had known each other for over 15 years. Of course we're going to act close.
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