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Posted in I'm so conflicted Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


Its only natural that its still on his mind but oof yikes that theyre that young. I can see it being so awkard.
Posted in I gotta bone to pick with you. Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


Thank you
Posted in I gotta bone to pick with you. Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


Please help put this fire under my butt out. It is melting my avi's face off..
Posted in [x] Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


Hachi:
The tongue-twister that gets me every time is "Irish wristwatches"
I just can't.

Also that Chinese story that is literally just "shi" repeated over and over but in different tones frustrates me so much

255/500


I HAD TO DO THAT IN MANDARIN CLASS IT WAS SO FRUSTRATING! (I have a very small lisp that made it ten times worse)
Millet, spilling the tea:


@mdom: trade sent!
Posted in I'm so conflicted Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


I think the biggest obstacle here, is breaking an old habbit. Reframing language that he has used without issue for yearssss means he is gonna feel really stuttery around his language. Something he never had to think about now a noted forefront of his professionalism. With that I feel for him.

I wonder if some of those made uncomfortable felt bad FOR YOU, thinking he wasnt being loyal to his wife er something.

Im happy you see both sides, endearment names wouldnt personally bother me unless they crossed into grosser territory like sexy/busty/mamalicious but everyone is different and said parties genuinely too nerve rackingly shy or concerned to address it themselves to him.

I think his reputation will be ok if he tries to unwire this habit and i know that may be annoying for him, and difficult to switch the mindset over to, but he'll be a better person for it in the work place. Im so sorry he feels on edge but ya. As a lady you know some of the bs women as a whole go through making it easy to misconstrue these things. I try for myself to be direct and speak up if something bothers me or I want clarification. But the matter of fact is in a work environment which ever position is more 'professional' is the one that should be ruled on, he should try to see it that way I guess. See the nicknames less as a complaint of sexual harassment and more of a complaint to not be too casual on the clock. If that helps at all lol
Millet, spilling the tea:


Wow, thaaaaaaaank you! *updates first post *
Millet, spilling the tea:


Didnt even notice but yes, haha!
Millet, spilling the tea:


This is a bump so that I may get back on the first page and hopefully draw attention.
Posted in Closed Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


I can sell you the messenger. I'll send trade for when you are on next. :)
Posted in Hello. Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


@Little Crane: My favorite bird, is the Kea. Click here to learn about it!
Posted in Hello. Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


As a bird lover, I love your adorable usename! Welcome to Voltra my dear!
Posted in I finally went to the fancy tea house! Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


I used to have a teapot that had a music box thingy under it that played "tea for two". Alas, it broke. :(
Posted in Chibi beans [♛] open Posted 6 years ago
Millet, spilling the tea:


Nothing, I love it! Ima make it my signature when i stop being lazy and power my computer on haha!