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Millet, spilling the tea:

I certainly do not, at all..
Pina Colada's are way too sweet to me.
And I don't like being soggy without it being my choice.
I also hate bacon. The smell induces nausea.
The beach is super overrated. Being burned by sand
and playing in water saltier than my family members
in a high dense population is gross. Why do people like that?(Rhetoric.)
Cake is pretty gross. Again not big on sweets and cake is just boring to me.
I've had some fancy dang cakes and were "meh" at best to me.

Tell me the things you dislike that most others enjoy?
Color me curious.

Millet, spilling the tea:

Time with pupper-onis?
Money?
Something to motivate Exercise?
Heck ya. GO TUIJP GO!

Millet, spilling the tea:

Ya know, of all make up items...
Eyeshadow is the one I can't figure out.
I just can't apply it for the life of me. I've
watched tutorials, tried different qualities, etc.

It just always looks aweful on me when I wear it.
I haven't owned an eyeshadow pallet since my last
attempt Sophomore year of highschool.

I know this was completely off topic it
just made me re-contemplate makeup
in my life lol. CONGRATS ON THE DEAL
SNAG!

Millet, spilling the tea:

^Goes and makes a radical pirate avi anyway! :P

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/No one entered the current contest so will be keeping it up one more week. If no one enters next week it goes away./
*ponders ways to get Voltra more members and activity*

Millet, spilling the tea:

Half of my inspiration on avatar sites is "How much customizability is there that I could make a solid D&D character outta it?"

Millet, spilling the tea:

Well my post format messed that up. lol
@Zuzu: Yes m'zu!

Millet, spilling the tea:

Dipper:
[align=center][color=Lightblue]Yes, Dark Master~


Repping curséd pirates everywhere -
Have my pirate who got turned into a merman and is desperately trying to find a way to break his curse and get his sea legs back. I fear I might continue making him a story if I don't cut this short now ajfjsjdh

@Zuzu: Ahoy Dipper joinin ya crew!




Does it please you, Master Dowan~?

I WANT YOU TO KEEP WRITING IT.

@Saeyra: Thanks dollface

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Testsroo2

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Did it work

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Thanks snakeweaver!

Millet, spilling the tea:

@Kozi: tell me your top pet peeves!

Millet, spilling the tea:

Ah hoy! Me liked it so much, I equipped it! Argh!
Lemme join ya crewww zuzu

Millet, spilling the tea:

Firstly, I feel greatly for your friend. Complex-PTSD is no joke and he clearly is still too close and deep in the active abuse to successfully have time for his own thoughts to fully and honestly analyze the situation. He's very likely dissociating by any means necessary when it comes to these volatile relationships and without proper grounding and self directed decisions indeed things wont change. Your frustration is valid
You desperately want to help. Havent succeeded in conveying the wake up call he needs, and you yourself feel like (probably) youre falling apart as your empathy essentially takes you side by side with him and respectively your feeling the torment that he is actively detaching from. Thats likely the only defense mechanism he knows, and its likely the one that worked best for himself growing up.

As someone with severe dissociative issues myself and struggling as an adult to ground myself without a panic attack from simple reality, I know the things that work best for me dont translate to best for him- an individial. But it may in some degree inapire something helpful. Or not ar all and if so, dearly sorry!

1) This hurdle is one that will need professional guidance as Gatorlec said. Therapies such as EMDR would be amazing for him to try and may help him more than just come to terms with the abuse, but provide the creation of healthy defense mechanisms so that as things go down in the present, hell have the tools ans internal strength to face these things as necessary instead of passively living and absorbing this extreme negativity.

2) in the meantime, while you cant offer the help a therapist can, I wonder if hed be receptive to auto-nervous system response stuff?

Have you told him that this whole thing is burning you out/leaving you overly concerned? Not sure the extent he is willing to discuss and explore at least self help techniques.