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Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Koah: Is not silly to ask :3
I guess the best way to describe it is I find having a twin brother normal to begin with because well I'm born to have one. I saw how rare that is especially having a fraternal twin much later xD Believe me, despite being twins we hated each other guts in the past. I feel like we are complete opposites of each other lmao, I guess that makes it difficult because we're the same age too and there's no freaking sibling hierarchy. But I would say now my brother would be the older sibling role because he has the qualities of it. But there are moments that I also take the role as well is weird =w=
Ooh that's interesting :3 They might go through the same things we did, do they have a good relationship as siblings?
Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Koah: Is all good, I had other stuff needed to be done as well (*´ ˘ `*)
Hmm were similar too, different personalities which made the relationship rocky in the past but we are a lot closer now. I would say we do communicate a bit differently compare to other people. We share the same humor and we influence each other a lot I think. But our different views can sometimes be a problem sometimes but I don't think is any different from any sibling relationship.
I heard with identical twins despite being identical, they are still some small differences that your able to tell them apart. I wouldn't know about that since I wasn't really close with any identical twins but knew some.
Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Wildfire: *waves back* ♡(◍•ㅅ•◍)♡
I'm feeling great! Had a good sleep last night and didn't woke up once so I don't feel so tired today and I just finished my breakfast and chilling for a bit.
And take your time :3
Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Wildfire: Yeah... I'm not even a parent myself but the way I was raised made me question being a parent anytime soon.
And my dad wants grandchildren before he dies hopefully ( ͒ ́ඉ .̫ ඉ ̀ ͒)
And homschooling community? So your kids are homeschool? I heard they are some that joins up to arrange a talent show by prob the end of the school year.
Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Koah: Yep x'DD
We're farternal twins too ( ´ ▽ ` )ﾉ
How's your morning going?
Posted in I'm not okay. I just need to rant a long one
Posted 4 years ago
@Koah: Thanks :3 *hugs you*
I'm able to open up here because of the lovely community we have going on here from my experience getting to know some people including yourself~ And understanding that I'm not the only one going through something. It makes it easier to share my story.
Plus I just really needed to rant lmao
Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Koah: Yep I learn quick too back then and I got spanked by both of my parents lol... with a slipper or a belt if I recall. But when I moved here in Canada it was frown upon so they didn't continue it. But I had a recent talk about it with my Dad and he said that what he had done was right and considered normal back then, because he was also raised that way. He only realized the negative impact of it much later on and learn there are other ways to discipline children. He also mentioned that often times you can get to carried away with it and it can come as abuse and not discipline anymore which he also experienced growing up. It was just different times back then.
Yeah I'm surprised that no one really taught me to write on my right hand, not even my teachers from what I remembered growing up. I just struggled learning math and I was one of the last students in my class that learned how to read. But I found people's reaction interesting though, is like the same reaction when they found out I have a twin brother x'D
Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Koah: Yeah the stories I heard about left-handed people are not that severely bad. I heard we're known to be more creative but suffer more into mental illness. I heard that most likely one of the twins will be left-handed which fits my description perfectly. And not gonna lie... that fact there is umm 10 or 11% of us exist today makes feel a bit of a special little snowflake xD
Yeah just learned my mother used to be left-handed as well until she had to learn to write right-handed. I guess I got it from her lol. I think that's why my mom wanted to do the same thing to me when I was younger until my dad talk her out of it. But damn older generations has it bad that I'm glad in a way to be alive around this era. I heard even spankings were used to disciple children around my father's time and used it to me when I was younger.
Posted in I'm not okay. I just need to rant a long one
Posted 4 years ago
@Priestess of Pie: Yeah, and sometimes you don't realize that the people your close with are toxic until much later. All through fron going within and doing some self-reflective thinking.
Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Wildfire: Well I have a pretty bad youtube addiction so... ( ͒ ́ඉ .̫ ඉ ̀ ͒)
Yeah I suppose I've done some productive stuff then and even today but I'm still a harsh critic to myself and feel like I should be doing something more also.
Posted in I'm not okay. I just need to rant a long one
Posted 4 years ago
@Priestess of Pie: Yeah it feels like forgiveness is like that for me now. At this point, all the hate I had towards her is mostly depleted and what's left of is just hurt and disappointment. I've learned from some psychiatrist who streams to help the gaming community on Twitch that anger comes from hurt and that very well describes what I'm feeling now. I've set boundaries and do my best to speak the truth to her without loosing my shit and is still learning. Is freaking hard because I've been a doormat to her for so long and that I still feel guilty setting boundaries.
@Totalanimefan: I honestly met too many people like that, not even therapists just strangers that are one point friends with my family one point or another and is honestly my pet peeve now to meet people that can't mind their own business. Voltra is such a treasure to me, because is nice to just talk with our issues with not much judgement. I hope it stays that way.
Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Wildfire: Hmm never saw it that way. But I can recall moments similar to that, is always doing anything creative for me. In the eyes of other is a skill that may not bring food in the table or pointless but still feel passionate enough to continue it anyway.
But productive to me these days is just anything to get me out to the laptop or on my bed and part of it is doing tasks that is uncomfortable to face but I know it will benefit me in the end.
Posted in I'm not okay. I just need to rant a long one
Posted 4 years ago
@Totalanimefan: Yeah that's why I love this community so much :)
But is still scary because I'm not one good at handling criticisms well.
Yeah, I've had social workers before when I was in school and that was nice. But I don't think anytime soon especially now.
Posted in ┤▒├ Wild Sweet Treats
Posted 4 years ago
@Wildfire: I get what you mean, I have those moments as well. Actually had it the other week but at this point I'm wondering what counts productive atm.