Saeyra's posts
Posted in Woah what
Posted 6 years ago
@Selaphi: Hellow and Welcome to Voltra! I am turning 28 and I love kitties too!
I am glad you like our aesthetic! I hope to see you around more :)
Posted in If it weren't for...
Posted 6 years ago
@Fozzy: Get well soon and if you come down with a fever I am placing you under house arrest!
@Tuijp: I have a couple of frozen pizzas in the fridge. Wanna share?
Posted in Having Children.
Posted 6 years ago
@Glume: Thats a really good way of explaining it. Ready player 3!
One of the ways I think about it is. I am not gonna live forever and neither is my husband. One of us is gonna die before the other and we are gonna need someone to hold on to. A piece of us to survive and live on. I just know if my husband died before we had a kid together it would probably be my biggest regret. It might be a selfish reason to have a kid but its really hard to not be selfish about something that doesn't exist yet.
Posted in Its Christmas! Let's make it snow good vibes!
Posted 6 years ago
@Another Movie Addict: Thats amazing!
I am really happy for you *hugs* your avatar looks really cute and I hope you have a Merry Christmas too!
Posted in Its Christmas! Let's make it snow good vibes!
Posted 6 years ago
@xirin: That's really great to hear man! I am glad things are getting better. I wish you all the best for next year and I hope this Christmas is a happy one for you!
Posted in ✨Tarots ✨
Posted 6 years ago
@devil: Yep yep! To make an entire deck myself would require a whole new level of confidence in my work that I don't have XD
Posted in ✨Tarots ✨
Posted 6 years ago
@devil: I once saw someone on deviantart design tarot cards in Art Nouveau style and lemme tell ya it gave me chills. I don't know if they ever finished the deck or made prints but it was truly inspiring.
Posted in The Lurker Locker
Posted 6 years ago
Yes, no cheating children I have bet money on this.
Posted in Better Sibling Interactions
Posted 6 years ago
@Alyssya: Maybe have an honest talk with the middle one and tell her how she is really sharp with her words and tell her how it makes other people feel because maybe she might not know it. Tell her you guys are stuck together for the forseeable future and it would be more bearable for everyone if she would make a little bit of an effort to be nice to the little one. Tell her you understand the youngest can really get on the nerves because of their young age but its gonna get better when she gets older. Tell her you are also there to vent to about the little one instead of taking it out on her.
On the other hand you gotta not spoil the youngest and try to teach her to be more mature so the age difference isn't so problematic. Its gonna get easier with time as the youngest catches up but I understand what you are going through man.
These things are not gonna change overnight but with a little bit of habitual training I think you can alleviate abit of the pressure. Maybe give the middle one a look or something when she is being mean. Unfortunately you gotta be consistent to get her out of it.
Posted in :valsunglasses: Let's do this!
Posted 6 years ago
@anrifay: Welcome to Voltra! You sound like quite the entrepreneur!! Gosh if you don't mind I'd really love to see your tattoo designs!
I have always wanted one but never found THE ONE if you know what I mean..
Posted in Better Sibling Interactions
Posted 6 years ago
@Alyssya: I am the middle of 3 sisters. While I never had this exact problem I think you should go watch a movie or do an activity that you all enjoy and can bond over. Find the things that transcend the age difference. (for us it was disney and books) Share your hobbies with each other and try things together. Anytime we are fangirling over something we aren't fighting. Living with people will automatically create friction (especially siblings who aren't always born compatible) but this common ground will stay with you guys for the rest of your lives and bring you back together even when you are older.
Posted in crazy power outage
Posted 6 years ago
@MoodyBats: Well I wish you luck with your drawing and hope it turns out good :vanora_smile:
Posted in crazy power outage
Posted 6 years ago
@MoodyBats: For me its the opposite, I would get hurt if my family forgot. I hope you do something nice for yourself though even if everyone else forgets. Buy yourself something or go to your favorite spot and have a good day
Posted in crazy power outage
Posted 6 years ago
@MoodyBats: Haha you are welcome. Its easy to get depressed in winter so us winter kids need to stick together.