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Posted in Writing Prompt Wednesday! Win a CRATE!
Posted 6 years ago

All future prompts regardless of participation, will be changed every wednesday though.
@Dowan: Thanks a bunch! :)

Posted in Writing Prompt Wednesday! Win a CRATE!
Posted 6 years ago

Kcalb:
Can I still join? I know it's Friday )':
Yes, everyone can join throughout the entire week. I'll edit my initial post to reflect that more clearly.Can I still join? I know it's Friday )':
Ya'll have today still!

Posted in ✮ stardust | ~ deluxe profiles ~ open!
Posted 6 years ago


Posted in Millet can will-it! (eventually :P )
Posted 6 years ago



Posted in Playing shooter video games damages the brain
Posted 7 years ago

And I'm sure its impact is barely any more or less different than someone playing any not super intellectually stimulating game. My step mother plays BINGO on her iPhone up to 6 hours a day.
There's zero strategy or concentration to bingo, so for fairness of the claim I'd like them to weigh it against other things. Next time with a bigger pool of subjects and longer range.

Posted in I dont know..
Posted 7 years ago



Posted in I dont know..
Posted 7 years ago

The single thing that I see time and time again both in my own personal experience and with watching others in similar scenarios is it seems difficult for people to accept that they really cant change someone, unless that person wants to change.
If he truly does lack self awareness, coupled with the rare admission of flaw but skews it with "that's just my personality" there is nothing you can do. This is a wall he created and it seems from your description he is in denial of it being there.
It doesnt matter how nice you are. How hard you try. And ultimately the more you try things with blatantly no progress ends up enabling him.
Think about it, you keep coming back no matter how horrible he is. He has you wrapped around his finger while you struggle to find objective foundation and question 'what's ok? This doesnt feel ok. But what IS ok?'.
He has no reason to change. He has no desire to change and he seems tootin' proud of what he's becoming.
If you haven't tried thoroughly communicating with him I do suggest you gently try to do so. I dont mean "hey you're mean sometimes and it hurts", I mean "listen, since xxx event it feels like you are closing up/drifting out and it makes my place in your life feel insecure...etc."
If you have already done that, and it went no where or backfired then you really need to enter this difficult phase of acceptance that he wont change. You cant change him and the only way things are going to get better - is if you make the change for yourself.
I understand it's not remotely that simple. I've been in exactly the same scenario and at the time vomit worthy levels of codependency.
But you need peace in your life hon. Dont rob yourself of it. You deserve to be in a relationship where communication isnt hostile and your ground isnt shaking beneath you. He needs a reality check but he cant get one if he doesnt learn that actions have consequences. This wont change, this will continue if he doesnt seek help and if you dont seek the change you know deep down is inevitable if he wont meet you half way on the emotional spectrum.

Posted in Sunburns Are Hell
Posted 7 years ago

I guess that comes with the fact that I'm mostly half Irish, half Iberian. (A few other things mixed in but those are the dominant ones)
So I feel ya-
Sometimes.

Posted in It has been a year
Posted 7 years ago



Posted in Millet can will-it! (eventually :P )
Posted 7 years ago



Posted in Millet can will-it! (eventually :P )
Posted 7 years ago


Posted in Writing Prompt Wednesday! Win a CRATE!
Posted 7 years ago


Posted in Millet can will-it! (eventually :P )
Posted 7 years ago

Please let me know what you are seeking out and let's see if we can make a deal! :)

Posted in Millet can will-it! (eventually :P )
Posted 7 years ago
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Bird of Prey (I have one, want more. ha.)
Midsummer Night's King
*Alice*
Strawberry Delight
Rig Items
Frankie
*Centaur* (I bought SO many Centaur orbs dude. Natta. /crying)
Event Items
COMPLETE!
Other
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Donators!
Thank you bunches guys <3
-Vengeance - Items to help me not look like a n00b when I first joined
-Hazer Alice grab bag!
-Lunakiri: guardian Spark, Ellie,Nightwalker Tank,Snuggle Bunny Deep Sea Diver, Valorous Knight,Urro the Corrupt.
Ghost: Alicorn
-Fozzy: Curious Case
-Unicorn: Merlantis
-Tuijp: beach babe
-Mousy: beach babe, valentina's gloves, vontell's book
-Strawberry: miscelanneous crate items

*'s indicate very desired.
Crate Items
Bird of Prey (I have one, want more. ha.)
Midsummer Night's King
*Alice*
Strawberry Delight
Rig Items
Frankie
*Centaur* (I bought SO many Centaur orbs dude. Natta. /crying)
Event Items
COMPLETE!
Other
dood!
*poop!*
Donators!
Thank you bunches guys <3
-Vengeance - Items to help me not look like a n00b when I first joined
-Hazer Alice grab bag!
-Lunakiri: guardian Spark, Ellie,Nightwalker Tank,Snuggle Bunny Deep Sea Diver, Valorous Knight,Urro the Corrupt.
Ghost: Alicorn
-Fozzy: Curious Case
-Unicorn: Merlantis
-Tuijp: beach babe
-Mousy: beach babe, valentina's gloves, vontell's book
-Strawberry: miscelanneous crate items
