So tyi's mom was out of town for almost 2 weeks, and it was glorious. She got back last sunday, and has been working pretty much all week, so back to the usual routine with the hot room and the door closed, And then last night, we went to orlando to go to hotpot with our old roommates and while we were out there Tyi's phone gets blown up by her because she didn't know what happened to her vacuum went. so then this morning/late last night (2am?) there was a vacuum outside the office door that we assumed was what she was looking for. Apparently!!!! The vacuum that we thought was hers isn't hers? and she thought it was ours. And then proceeded to say that if she was gone on vacation, and we were here the whole time, then we should know what happened to her vacuum, and then implied that we threw it away or had a cleaning company come and clean the house and that THEY swapped out the vacuum. neither happened, btw. She just doesn't think we would keep the house clean or that we would clean it? idk. And obviously we didn't get rid of her vacuum, like, who would do that? So that got blown up into a really big shouting match between her and tyi this morning, while tyi and i haven't slept yet. The kicker is that she has a picture of the vacuum she was thinking of and showed tyi it, and he said he's never seen it before in his life. And the vacuum that was outside the office was the only one we've seen in this house. So idk. But basically it turned into a huge screaming match and things got banged around and the front door got slammed a LOT (like at least 8 times in a span of 5 minutes) and it was ridiculous and overly dramatic. and basically she has no respect for me or tyi (based on all of the issues we've had so far, including ones i haven't mentioned yet like her STILL coming into the office and moving things without permission/asking. Like, yeah, she came in here to look for her vacuum, fine, but then she started picking things up again instead of waiting for us to get home and do it ourselves- that's not ok.) and treats us like children instead of adults and stuff. So basically the vacuum fight escalated to where tyi basically said forget this, we'll be moved out in a week. and yeah... So we might end up moving back in with our old roommates, might not. I kind of want to, kind of don't. 3rd floor is not ideal, or the smaller room, but at least we'd be treated right.

Also, after all of that, she followed it all up with a guilt trip because he (and his siblings, but she wasn't complaining to them) doesn't go to the grandparent's house very often unless it's for a birthday or anniversary. But like.... He tries, but he still has to take care of himself before he can try to care for anyone else, and part of that is watching out for his mental health. Gram has dementia, and it's getting pretty rough, but every time she forgets something or gets confused, it destroys Tyi. He was pretty much raised by them, and lived with them since he was like 8 until he moved out when he was like 21, and then we lived with them when we first moved to florida 8 years ago (i didn't realize it's been that long) so its even harder on him than it is his siblings and she just refuses to understand that.