Purpsy's posts
Posted in ┤▒├ Wildfire's World ┤▒├ All welcome, all the time - come say Hi!
Posted 3 years ago
Yeeaaah new week yaaaaay...
Posted in ┤▒├ Wildfire's World ┤▒├ All welcome, all the time - come say Hi!
Posted 3 years ago
@Wildfire: Awweee xD
A worthy kidnapping hehe (❁´ω`❁)
Posted in ┤▒├ Wildfire's World ┤▒├ All welcome, all the time - come say Hi!
Posted 3 years ago
*takes the bacon and eggs*
Good morning~
Posted in ┤▒├ Wildfire's World ┤▒├ All welcome, all the time - come say Hi!
Posted 3 years ago
@Wildfire: It doesn't really tuck in perfectly like yours does =w=
Not sure about other shirts since I never use those pants for my avis yet.
Posted in ┤▒├ Wildfire's World ┤▒├ All welcome, all the time - come say Hi!
Posted 3 years ago
@Wildfire: Yeah they do have a high-waisted jeans there but I'm not sure it can tuck in the shirt.
*goes and checks*
Posted in ┤▒├ Wildfire's World ┤▒├ All welcome, all the time - come say Hi!
Posted 3 years ago
@Another Movie Addict: I'm glad your feeling better ^^
Posted in ┤▒├ Wildfire's World ┤▒├ All welcome, all the time - come say Hi!
Posted 3 years ago
@Wildfire: Oh it looks like you can buy it on shops xD But I think I do remember that item now.
Posted in ┤▒├ Wildfire's World ┤▒├ All welcome, all the time - come say Hi!
Posted 3 years ago
Good morning everyone! How's everyone doin today?
@wildfire: Are those pants new? It works so well with that top (๑°ㅁ°๑)‼✧
Posted in Upcoming Releases
Posted 3 years ago
I'm looking forwards for the event!
And take your time, I personally don't mind the wait.
Thank you for being honest and working hard for us despite your busy schedules♡
Posted in I need to vent this out.
Posted 3 years ago
@koneko: Yepp ( ͒ ́ඉ .̫ ඉ ̀ ͒)
Posted in I need to vent this out.
Posted 3 years ago
@Kairu: Thanks! I did needed some mental cheer up when I created this thread and also an outside perspective because I do overthink often.
@koneko: Yep, and my parents alone can be a little conservative and religious.
They rather seek help from God than therapy.
Cross my fingers that I'll have a partner like that someday too!
Posted in I need to vent this out.
Posted 3 years ago
@Kairu: I have given up doing that. Like we do talk about our family problems in the past and I suggested therapy (but not group family therapy yet)
But at this point they're very set their own ways and I'm at that point I was very drained and just accept that they're not willing to change unless they want to.
All I can do is set boundaries, learn to assertively say no at times and they were some things I don't tolerate anymore in this household and I make sure they are very aware of that. I just want to focus on myself for now because I do have issues I need to deal with on my own. Is just yesterday I was quite irritated of my mother.
That last bit you wrote about is something that it's been on my mind lately. That freedom is me living my own independent life and moving out of this apartment. That's something I truly want, but doing so is exposing myself on a lot of fears that put my life on halt in the first place. It never really hit me until recently that being independent is something I've always struggle for or another way to put it is taking charge my own life. I used to heavily rely on other people's opinions than my own. That's something that's hard to break free from.
Posted in I need to vent this out.
Posted 3 years ago
@koneko: I try my best not to put my worth on what I can do around my apartment, I used to have such unhealthy mindset like that before. But I do try to communicate to them that I do want some assistance from time to time. Honestly majority of the time it feels like talking to a wall but they do help out sometimes.
I have most issues with this with my mother. If I'll be really honest as much as I want her to help out around here, there's also a part of me that doesn't want her to help around. Mainly because on how she cleans can be kind of stressful to deal with at times. When the cleaning proves too much of her, she is so quick to blame others or get furious and dealing with that all these years can be so draining. But her temper also improve significantly a lot over time too.
At least in the flip side I know how to maintain my own apartment when I move out in the future, but that could also take time also. But if I have a partner like that who helps out like that without me asking I'll be eternally grateful of him. You're quite lucky.
Posted in Rejection
Posted 3 years ago
*gives you virtual hugs*
rejection sucks but you'll get through this. Give yourself time to be sad for awhile and you'll meet that person one day.
Often times it happens when you least expect it so just work on yourself for now and just enjoy being single while you can.