sorta on topic...
i was talking to a therapist and they didn't seem to understand that i can't just put everything aside to focus on oly one thing until its done.
like...
I have to take care of kids, keep the house clean, take care of busses, and parent teacher calls, and meal times, try to get a job, ect.
it was kind of an awful phone call that made me feel worse :/

@Lopsided Oreo: she specifically brought up her kids later in the conversation :[ i'd been ready to give her the benefit of doubt that she didn't understand parenting, until that moment.
and she was specifically "the advice on driving i used to give my kids" ... i'm like.. no... we're hitting a generation gap here lady. you're helpfulness may have just gone out.

@Lopsided Oreo: i really wish i could. sadly, this is where i got sent by insurance.

@Lopsided Oreo: welllll. part of the reason i even have a therapist is because my social anxiety is at an all time high, and my ability to cope with things is at a low.i don't like driving, and phone calls make me panic xD

i've never been able to find a good therapist and so i've been trying to stick this one out because its obvious she's trying to help. sometimes things just... aren't helpful. she doesn't get something. its hard to explain. but yeah. i with i could find someone that actually helps.
I don't know how to find them and i feel bad backing out of every therapist i've had

Hey everyone, I’ve been travelling to day so not online!!

@Lopsided Oreo: actually I'm a single mom in ny state and my boyfriend/soulmate lives in canada . And my ex husband is a *censored*

Oh and not offended or upset or anything :o just providing information ^^

mmmmm pizza

@wildfire: You're late! You're late for a very important date!!

@shadami: I asked because I live in Rochester NY. So meeting and friending another New Yorker makes me... happy lol.

Additionally that might be a good idea, to give them permission for him to call for you. You know?

@Shadami: Oooh dope! lol