Eruca's posts

Praise be!

I'll pray to the RNG god(s) any day, if it helps. More fun than praying to the one with the capital G imo.
Did you get thru them eventually?

@Shark: I thought the point of going to therapy is figuring out what you need to make whatever change in your life you want to make. Not knowing being an obstacle kinda defeats its purpose, imo.

Maybe like, you just have a lot to say and it's like not possible to talk about them all at the same time even though you live it. I think you can always just change the topic to what you think is important. I was always told I could talk about whatever I wanted during therapy. Is that true for you too?

@Dread Pirate: Wow ghosting sounds awesome. Wanna be my rich friend? lol.

@Koko: Omg your avi looks like what my avi might have looked before she died. xD But like, with better color coordination.

@Shark: Transitioning is your something easy? Wow, you're giving me a lot of perspective in this conversation.

Sometimes it's like you have to manage the therapist. Any conversation goes two ways, i guess, so they have to feel like you're making progress as much as you do, and it's easy to start with something easy. But I'd expect them to at least respect your priorities. You're not just a collection of problems.

@Buffy The Slayer: So I'm guessing that you, uh, like Buffy the vampire slayer?

@Buffy The Slayer: Gravity and inertia make the world go round.

@Shark: Everything you said made sense to me so far.

Yeah, I feel like that too. I never liked the format of therapy. Although I've only sampled like, 3 therapists out of the... god knows how many out there.

It's a shame you couldn't stick with the therapist you like. Transitioning seems like a pretty important piece of context to understand what you're going thru, and it's gonna be hard for a new therapist to "catch up" on everything, so to speak.

@Buffy The Slayer: If I didn't have a deadline, I'd likely get nothing done.
That's just me tho.

@Shark: Sorry I'm not more useful to you. I have enough trouble dealing with my own issues, though they may not be as intense.

How do you tell a good therapist from a bad one?

@Lance: GASP! Unhand my collar you brute!
Unless you were referring to your own collar.

This is turning out to be Schrodinger's collar.
Unhand his collar! What did Schrodinger ever do to you?
Is this a bar fight?
hashtag drama

@Shark: Don't you feel more motivated now that you have a deadline?
That's just how my mind works. It's all gonna end one day, so if I want to experience things I better work at it as soon as I can.

@Shark: Well, anxiety will always be with you but you could lose the work of your legs eventually.
Make sure you go take a walk between now and eventually.

@Alatariel: I don't remember nothing that happened in the ending.
Except... Maybe somebody fell off a moving carriage and somebody else caught 'em.

@Shark: Haha. Well, you have chances every day. xD

*starts conga line behind shark*

Yeah, I don't Need to be on facebook. and I'm not. Other people need to stop asking me to join. Still, I don't see that as a "need".

I'm all for Europe outlawing Facebook if they're not gonna abide by the laws. idc. my life is fine without it and there are plenty of other alternatives.