Glume's posts

Posted in Cucumber love Posted 5 years ago

Oh boy, Im going to get to be excited over stuff like that soon. Real soon. Too soon, I'm so unprepared!

Posted in Just jumping off the Battle Bus Posted 5 years ago

*flails in* Everyone's got a switch but meeeee! *flails out*

Posted in I made bubble tea from scratch! :3 Posted 5 years ago

I've never had it and know nothing about it, but I've always been curious. Whats it like and how'd you make it?

Posted in Gatekeeping Newcomers Posted 5 years ago

Every time I see this happening, I go off. Gatekeeping is such BS. It tends to happen a bit more if you're of a feminine persuasion too, as though you can't possibly know things about cool-stuff if you're not a guy. I personally have a disability that effects my memory. I listen to a LOT of songs, I know all the words, but I can't for the life of me recall specific song titles on cue. My brain just does not work that way. So not only are these people gatekeeping when grilling me, they're being horrible ablest and I let them know right away what crap humans they are for doing so. Just let people enjoy things! If you've got a passion, share it with the world. Teach people instead of shoving them away from what you like for no reason.

Posted in Vibrant art: draw the avi above you XDDD Posted 5 years ago

@DragonicKittens: Ack. I love it!
Whoever is next, pretend I'm @Alethna: ! That should get things on track.

Posted in Vibrant art: draw the avi above you XDDD Posted 5 years ago

@inatlaka: I drew this for you but forgot to claim a spot and messed up the order for maybe two other people...? I'm a sham!

Posted in Talking about changes (for sake of my love one) Posted 5 years ago

First of all I want to say its awesome that you care for your pet so much. I'm constantly over-doing things to make my dog happy, and its totally worth it. My advice is to look at this like an adventure. Change is scary, but it can lead you to new things you didn't know you'd love. Maybe you can spend some time playing different types of music for you and your bird, perhaps nature-sounds or even try books on tape if voices soothe you both. You might end up finding something that works even better for you that your bird can groove to as well.

Posted in Clap for heroes Posted 5 years ago

Here at 8pm everyone just goes outside and howls at the moon.

Posted in It made me feel alone Posted 5 years ago

@vengeance: I was just relating my experience, not saying you don't get out enough. Bars are trash, though. You can just as easily meet someone in a less-pressured environment. Metal concerts should be great for that, just jump into a smoke circle outside the venue and mingle, unless the smoke drastically bothers you, most metalheads love to gab about metal with other metalheads. Obviously this may have to wait 'till after the pandemic passes. (Also, I didn't put up a picture when I did internet dating because it was a great way to avoid most of the perverts, so its not necessary. )

Posted in It made me feel alone Posted 5 years ago

I used to be where you are. I never/very rarely left the house. My parents loved me a great deal but they are the reason I never left the house. My mother would go into a full panic attack at the thought of me growing up, even when I was well into my 20's. She would threaten suicide, so I just stopped trying. I let myself stagnate because I felt I was worthless and why bother trying? I had one friend who pushed me out of my comfort zones, but that was it. Dating was awful and I did it all wrong. Even with all these things stacked against me, even when my father passed away and my horrible grandmother ruined my family, I managed to get the exact life I wanted. Things just changed for me. In about two years time I went from that lonely, hopeless, barely human feeling to the road to my future. I was 27 when things started changing, but I was about 30 before I moved out of my mothers house and got a real job, was in a steady relationship, and gained friends who are still by my side to this day. It takes some of us a bit longer to get where we want to be, but I think that makes us appreciate it more, and it makes us better at keeping it stable. I met my husband in the worst possible way, on ok cupid :viosweat: EVERY other experience I had with online dating was absolutely horrible, but because I never left my house, that was my only option. (I still wish there was a trustworthy platonic friend making site/app out there...) Somehow, fate threw us together. If you believe in yourself hard enough, life will give you what you need.

Posted in I made a thing Posted 5 years ago

That expression is fantastic!

Posted in What is your favorite thing about spring? Posted 5 years ago

Its not the two days of snow we just had, I can tell you that! Ha, spring in Colorado is wild, but so are most seasons. Two days of heavy snow, but the ground was so warm none of it stuck, and today everything is beautiful again. My poor flowers don't know what to do about it.

Posted in I love ______ because ________! ♡ (event game!) Posted 5 years ago

I love SLEEPING because ...*PASSES OUT*

Posted in games that give you nostalgia feelings. Posted 5 years ago

I might be slipping back into granny mode by mentioning this, but, Earthbound for the snes.