Xanthan's posts

@LordLucre: I used to be that way tbh. But karaoke, a gaggle of good friends, and a few shots.....over time I learned to put my inhibitions aside. What do you enjoy singing? For me it was southern gospel growing up, and then onto country. Now, if i know the words, I'm probably singing it....or at least in my head I am :p

@Kozi: :: sips on the tea :: This is quite the happening joint you have here. I love the atmosphere. Ever do slam poetry nights? I have some angst that longs to be shared.

@LordLucre: I enjoy singing as well. Sadly, others don't always care to listem to my singing 😔 ::looks around for a tip jar, spots it and deposits some fundage 💵::

@LordLucre: I wish you the best. Forced togetherness is not generally a great thing but you can choose to make the best of it. FFXIV sounds like fun and well you mentioned books. They are my best friend. 📖

@Alicethemadhatter: ooh there's entertainment too? Is
@LordLucre: any good lol

@Another Movie Addict: I'm having the hibiscus....what would you fancy?

@Shampoo: doing well considering people seem to have lost their mind around here lol yourself?

@Kozi: lovely place you have here.

@Another Movie Addict: care for a cuppa?

Hello everyone! ::pulls out a chair and sits to look over the menu:: :)

@moomin: thank you

@moomin: I had a good friend named mikayla and your avatar so reminds me of her! Maybe I ought begin my assent to master of the purple plush presentation? Hmmmm

@LordLucre: good plan. Don't let anyone or anything steal your joy!

@LordLucre: it is always hard to end a relationship especially a long standing one. Give yourself time to grieve the ending of a relationship no matter the terms. It seems your friend was looking for something you couldn't offer. That doesn't mean you or he is a bad person or needy, just misguided. I'm glad you were able to set healthy boundaries. Now is your time to maintain those boundaries. For me, any time something begins to cost me my peace of mind, the price is too dang high. Should you wanna chat about it feel free to hit me up.

@moomin: loving the green. And your closet has some great items and looks in it.

@Autus: I appreciate any help. A lot of this is new to me. Lol

@Autus: excellent idea! Thank you!